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Amy Donaldson: Talking about God in sports a touchy topic
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I think he meant you were "losers" as in "adult hypersensitive crybabies"...
Personally, I think Austin was right in both cases.
It's time to grow up.
What's funny is how much this pales to what is said on the field at a higher level.
May you all be blessed with incomparable joy.
I LOVE FOOTBALL and thanks to God I get to be involved in it in inumerable ways, thank you thank you!
Somebody somewhere about 15 years ago or so thought this would be such a clever little name to call this ongoing lose-lose exchange of venom in which EVERYONE looks like a jerk. (Fine, someone will call me a jerk too for pointing it out! Don't bother asking me if I care, though.)
No, this name isn't clever--it's stupid and insensitive (Islamic jihad?) as well as inaccurate. It encourages yet more spite and anger. And it makes people who insist on using it anyway (sorry, Amy) look dumber than all the rocks on every Utah mountain.
It's time to put it on the shelf, folks. Well past time, really.
1) the chip on the shoulder non-mormon in Utah who feels intimidated / frustrated / angry by anything LDS, intended, inferred, implied or any other way; (I really AM sorry that we as a people may have contributed to this defensivenes...)
2) the "offened for a word" crowd who is much like #1 above, but with no good reason - they are not really offended at all, they just delight in twisting words and finidng any rock they can to throw at BYU / the LDS church.
3) those who really are sensitive to the feelings of others, but to the point of hyper-sensitivity. Your heart may be in the right place, but you are willing to throw Collie under the bus for an offense he did not intend (or really even commit, in my biased opinion), in order to repair offense with people who LIKE to be offended.
Just my point of view, though...
U fans know this, and so exploit it and sometimes come up with some pretty obnoxious and nasty comments themselves - and they are labeled anti-Mormon because of it: perhaps some of them are, but most U fans are LDS themselves, and anti-Mormon sure isn't the right words to use to U fans who are LDS. Just because they mock the Y football team doesn't mean they are "anti".
This nasty "holy" war could be toned down if either side would just cool it down a bit. However, Y fans can easily cool it down by not being so hyper-sensitive. The Collie remarks were blown out of proportion by U fans, but Y fans hypersensitivity on the U fans' comments about it was blown out of proportion also.
Go Utes!
They are simply trying to find any reason to denegrate BYU. In their own self-righteous way they are trying to prove that BYU fans are self-righteous.
Neat huh? LDS tearing down LDS.
I for one am sick of it and think it is time for BYU to get out of the MWC so they don't have to continue to play Utah.
By the way, this is ONLY an issue in Utah - no where else.
I have to laugh at how people get so worked up about what someone says when it has nothing to do with them at all.
Austin was asked a question by the media and he answered with what he thought and believed. He said nothing about what each of us do or do not believe.
So why do people make this about them? Why do people assume that if Austin belives God helped him make a catch, that same God couldn't give him a trial to work through? I think it's because people spend way to much time worrying about what others think that they don't even know what they think.
Funny stuff!
For me, go Cougars!!
Good point. I think Collie is a fine young man, but hasn't always excelled in front of a mike. (a la "We're going to put a hurtin on em" when asked how the 2004 Cougs would do against the Utes). Sometimes athletes say things or do overzealous things when adrenaline is flowing after a big win. Just ask the Boston Celtics. Personally I think thanking deity after a win should be done privately and not publicly. I don't think Collie meant any real harm, and he's being made a villain by thin skinned opponents.
His comment about "losers", however, is incredibly unfortunate. I can understand being frustrated when people misunderstand what you're trying to say and resort to insults and name-calling in retaliation, but he shouldn't have stooped to their level.
So you don't read the comments I take it. ;)
To those who excuse him by saying he is only 22, if he was deemed mature enough to represent the Church on a mission, he should certainly be mature enough to respectfully represent his team after a football game. Regretfully, he was not.
He shouldn't be defended as if his comments were an honest expression of faith and gratitude. They were not. Collie's comments were a disrespectful reference to his opponent wrapped in religious expression.
You easily offended people, who think that any BYU player's reference to God and morality is a personal slap in the face, need to grow up. Get a hobby besides BYU-bashing.
AND you others, some of who can't see that not being "fully invested" in basic human qualities such as compassion, class, and decency comes at a BIG price, need to open your eyes. Why should others respect Austin Collie's remarks when some of you show so precious little respect for other people yourselves? News flash: Quite a number of you people need to grow up, too! Start practicing EVERYTHING you preach--like charity, kindness, and humility. Even at sporting events, or while commenting on them.
Everyone needs to take a few deep breaths and LET THIS GO. Learn and live your lessons. Become better people. Sing "I'm Trying to be Like Jesus" a little more often, and more seriously. Focus on something IMPORTANT.
That's all!
How about this: Ute fans are being hyper sensitive to BYU fans are being hypersensitive to Ute fans being hypersensitive to BYU fans being hypersensitive to Ute fans being hypersensitive.
Do you see how stupid your statement is?
The bottom line is a few Ute cry babies are looking for something to wine about. So they are fabricating meaning behind some words that Collie made about a 4th down conversion that wasn't even the winning play of the game.
Oh by the way, can someone please show me the exact quote that Collie made about God not loving the Utes or God wanting BYU you to win over the Utes? I haven't seen it yet...because it doesn't exist.
As with liberals, its impossible to criticize Cougars without protests that you are a hypersensitive hater.
As a matter of principle, it is hypocritical and offensive to claim that God favors you above others the way Austin Collie did. Any time an athlete thanks God for his or her success, they are claiming that God favored them and discriminated against their opponents. A righteous and just God would never do such a thing, regardless of what the superstitious ancient Israelites claim.
Austin Collie's statement was hypocritical for a more important reason. It ignores the fact that Austin Collie and BYU Football had FAILURES, too! Where was God then? Do they equally give God the credit for "cursing" them when they lose a game, or when Collie has a bad game? No. But to be consistent, they should. Presumably the "living right on and off the field" did not change, yet BYU lost several games last season, and Collie made countless mistakes.
Bottom line: It is wrong-headed, foolish, disrespectful, arrogant, and naive to give God the credit for helping you succeed in athletic competition. Period.
Actually, I think it's wrong-headed, foolish, disrespectful, arrogant, and naive NOT to give God the credit for helping you succeed in anything you do. Including athletic competitions.
We noticed that none of the Ute fans were performing the same prayer. That must have been why God blessed us with exactly the miracle we asked for. We were more righteous in our prayers than the Ute fans were.
You see? It is very simple. God loves us and BYU more than he does the Utes because we are more righteous on and off the field!
If you say that enough times, maybe it will become true!
A: Because it wasn't coming from someone affiliated with BYU. Hence, nobody was offended, and a name-calling cycle wasn't initiated by a paranoid, infantile rival fan base.
If you haven't yet recognized there's a double-standard for BYU, you need to wake up.
Now if only the Woods family had gone to BYU and told the story, people in Utah--and ONLY Utah--would be telling him how righteous they thought they were for it! Tiger Woods would be Public Enemy #1! The DesNews comment forums would be FILLED with bile about Tiger Woods' supposedly conceited and sanctimonious attitude! How DARE he represent himself as The Chosen One! God doesn't love Tiger Woods any more than Utah golfers!
Just as well we were all spared the trouble, isn't it? I'm telling all y'all, people--outside of Utah, NOBODY CARES. Collie's comments are a tempest in a teapot. They don't mean God hates Utah (for the hypersensitive) or that BYU is Forever Blessed for its righteousness (it isn't, for those who haven't "fully invested" in good sense).
You people--on BOTH sides!--REALLY need to move on. It's well beyond the point of ridiculous.
It is the LDS arrogance that brings this on, not the claims of spiritual experiences.
With religion you have to weigh the bad with the good, and although some good comes from it, it is mainly bad.
The LDS church hurts itself when they go out and tell EVERYONE in the world that they live are wrong and the LDS church is right.
That is an inconsiderate arrogant thing to do.
No one knows who is wright or wrong, even if you think you know, you really don't.
When are we going to move on from these horrible religious wars?
This "arrogance" that you speak of could also easily be ascribed to both Andrew Bogut's and Tiger Woods' fathers by a prejudiced critic. What? You believe your son's been divinely blessed by God more than anyone else on Earth? If someone decides Earl Woods or Mr. Bogut are some sort of deluded self-righteous religious nuts, they will interpret their words and behavior in that light--no matter their actual personal character.
Your argument would make a little more sense--maybe?--if Scott Collie had ever proclaimed Zac OR Austin "Chosen Ones" and cited a vision to that effect. Well, THAT hasn't happened, and isn't likely to. The only parallel stems from a HUGE leap of logic based on one young man's offhand comment about "living right."
Finally, by claiming "LDS arrogance," don't you actually reveal your own prejudices? I wouldn't lump you in with the "hypersensitive" crowd just yet--but let's see what your own words testify about that.
But at best, you're trying to make apples out of oranges, my friend. Sorry.
No, "My friend", you are the one "making apples out of oranges" -- [what kind of figure of speech is that?]
And you are comparing mountains and molehills [is that one you invented, too?]
The fathers of Woods and Bogut were not claiming spiritual superiority and being favored by God spiritually. They were claiming Golf superiority and Basketball superiority. By contrast, Collie was AFTER THE FACT claiming SPIRITUAL superiority and saying it translated into a win on the field. That is a whole different kettle of horses, and a fish of a different color (am I speaking your language yet?)
1) READ what Earl Woods has actually SAID about Tiger and his "vision" for him, and THEN tell us all with a straight face that he wasn't claiming any sort of spiritual or moral superiority for Tiger. The Gary Smith SI article "The Chosen One" would be #1 on your reading list. Research, my friend. Research.
2) You're still discussing your interpretation of Collie's words as if it were immutable fact. There IS a difference--and a rather significant one, at that. Deny it all you want, but you're not assessing the evidence fairly.
3) You still won't acknowledge that while the Woods and Bogut cases also apply to your argument, you single out Collie. If you're being logically consistent, you should condemn them all, too, along with a hundred other athletes who acknowledge God in their athletic success--but you won't.
All three points betray your prejudice--and you've repeatedly dodged that issue. So I'll assume I'm correct in that, and thank you!
Nice chatting with you! Have a wonderful evening.
Let's make this simple for you.
Collie said what he said about himself. He knows the history between the Y and the U. He made the statement deliberately and his meaning was clear. That is why all the outrage. Only simpleminded BYU clones and duped LDS apologists try to ingore and minimize the meaning.
By contrast, neither Tiger nor Bogut said anything about THEMSELVES. You are quoting what their PARENTS (fathers) said. Parental hopes for their children are NOT claims to being personally favored of God.
Are we getting through yet?
I've been arguing all along that references to God-given athletic ability and success are somewhat commonplace, which is ALL I see in Collie's remarks, the Woods/Bogut stories, and numerous other comments ranging from Reggie White to David Robinson. NONE are ANYTHING to get in a dither about.
What's so LDS-centric about that train of thought remains a mystery to me, though I'm sure you'll be happy to "explain"! And (read my previous posts) I'm actually NOT a "BYU fan." Truly and seriously. No mountains or molehills about it--except for those you build for yourself, of course.
Furthermore, as I've said several times before, down-your-nose comments such as "Only simpleminded BYU clones and duped LDS apologists try to ingore (SIC!) and minimize the meaning" reflect ONLY your OWN prejudice. You've actually said nothing about ME. Your obvious bias limits your own willingness and ability to understand the issues at hand, sorry to say.
Since having the final word seems to mean a great deal to you, feel free. I'm out.
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And I'll leave it you you U T E S to completely miss the point that it was over a year ago.
I will also give you the right to whine, but don't whine and ask everyone to respect you as a man.
My 7-year old daughter whines more than you U T E fans, about things that are just as meaningless.