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Hardy has been inactive in the LDS Church for the past six years. He no longer pays tithing or wears the religious undergarments considered sacred. In an interview last week, Hardy said he had always struggled to fit in and live up to the expectations of membership.
Well, if the 2009 calendar has already been to press, then you might make a little cash this year, providing you don't get slapped with a lawsuit. I wouldn�t expect a 2010 calendar, though. Somehow I think most of those 100 missionaries who expressed an interest might be re-thinking their position.
The Church has every right to defend its good name. Using missionaries, in missionary attire, with missionary name tags, in this manner is against the will of the Church. I am sure that this individual was given every opportunity to right this wrong, but he chose not to.
I wish him all the best and hope that one day he realizes that much of what is good in his life is due to the sacrifices of those six generations who went before him.
It is never a joyous occasion when someone falls away.
There have always been members of the church, who have chosen to walk a separate path, and there will always be those that make the same choice in the future.
The vision of the Tree of Life, chronicles that there are a number of paths available for the taking. If you don't like the path your on, change direction, however, choose wisely, for each path, eventually leads to a destination.
""The project is about stepping outside the stereotypes and stepping outside of the image," Hardy said."
So, it wasn't about the money???
From a practical standpoint, what really changes for Hardy? He still won't attend church services on Sunday, he won't be doing his home teaching, he won't be paying his tithing or attending the temple with any regularity. Will any of his acquaintances notice any differences?
So, his intention was to help us step out of the stereotypes and images that people have of members/missionaries of the LDS Church? I guess there are worse images he could be promoting than shirtless returned missionaries; I don't think that we really need to concentrate on redefining the image of returned missionaries.
I used to have the image that all sister missionaries were homely; my mission experience taught me otherwise. Maybe Hardy could put out a calender of attractive Sister Missionaries; just, please, keep the shirts on, thanks just the same.
So far the LDS church has only taken the first step of pulling membership. Hardy could have stopped his little venture months ago.
I also have a problem with the fact he used these RM's in a somewhat exploitational way. What if it were Sister Missionaries or Primary kids? The RM calendar is something I've heard many people joke about for years as being a funny idea. Hardy took it to another level when he made this a business.
I think, for a few thousand dollars, he has lost alot. Don't think many organizations would not take exception to what he did.
One point the public is not much aware of is that now that he's no longer a "member", it's the LDS belief that while he continues to not live according to the gospel standards, he won't be heaping further sin on his head...at least not the ones mentioned in the press.
Hopefully he'll come around and make the necessary changes, humble himself and have a true change of heart. After all, this isn't just about the here and now, it's about eternity. That's why his family will be sad. I wonder if he thought of that in all his flamboyance.
I hope his family is able to find peace and a way to reach their son.
Nobody is excommunicated for the above offenses, so I don't think they have anything to do with the disciplinary council.