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Thought #2: What one has to determine for themselves is if they will accept the counsel of President Thomas S. Monson. President Monson claims to have received direction from the Savior Himself on this issue. We then have to determine if this direction is of God or not. One must consider if raising their hand at the last conference was in full support of the newly called Prophet and mouthpiece of the Lord or simply a gesture of oneself to fit in with the masses and simply lie in wait to accept or reject what we think is God's will.
As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.
Can you please tell me how allowing two people of the same gender to marry harms you or I? How does it directly effect/harm people who stick to God's revelation that only a man and woman should be doing it?
Exactly how is society going to fall apart if we allow them to marry? Less than 100 years ago many thought it would be the break down of society if a black person married a white. Has the allowance and acceptance of inter-racial marriage done that damage? No. So why should same sex marriages be any different?
By encouraging actions that make members stand out as being "bigoted" and lacking empathy and understanding, less and less people will be inclined to join.
I already see this problem with my young nieces and nephews. Over half of them have left the Church mainly because of the stigma they feel that comes along with being a member. Instead of being an organization they feel "proud" to belong to, I'm afraid they now feel ashamed.
marriage: The institution whereby MEN and WOMEN are joined in a special kind of social and legal dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining a family. (See mr. Webster)
Notice the definition did not say Men and Men or Women and Women. The pupose is for founding and maintaining a family. Can a Man and a man found a family? I would like to see that happen by natural means. IT will not ever happen, god made sure of that.
Gay and Lesbians (GL's) have perverted themselves, they perverted the meaning of the word gay. and now they want to pervert the family unit.
These perverts must be stopped!!!! GL behavior is WRONG!!!
We'll let alcoholics, pedophiles, rapists, drug dealers and convicted murders get married. NO ONE is out demanding they be prohibited from getting married. Can anyone show me one sane reason why any of these would be LESS of a threat to children than a gay couple?
Therefore it is both ignorant and rediculous to hear the word of Christ on the subject through His duly sustained Prophet and to twist into something that meets your personal agenda.
As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.
Even if there are a small number of gay members there is a large number of families who have to deal with this issue. There are marriages that are destroyed when someone who married hoping to deny that they were gay can't deal with it anymore. Their spouses and children are pitched into pain and chaos. Parents live with kids who are struggling until they leave the church or end their misery in violence or self-medicate themselves into oblivion and addiction.
When it comes it will be a dark day for people who have shored up their consciences with hateful speech and ideas. But you'll have to change then so perhaps some softening of the hearts is in order now for the sake of your brothers and sisters who honestly struggle and for the sake of your own openness to the change that's coming.
Reactionary knuckle-draggers 50 years ago said the same thing about giving equal rights to blacks.
Nothing has changed, God is unchangeable, so is His Gospel and laws. Just because man changes doesn't mean God did. The world hated Christ and His message when He was on the earth, they will hate it today as well. Therefore all the posts that indicate how uneducated or narrow minded the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is, you are fulfilling what Jesus spoke of. So, thank you for fighting the kingdom of God on the earth. It shows that it is true.
It is interesting that one thing that caused the fall of Sodom and Gomorrah was homosexuality, and we are trying to embrace it as a nation, I pity the fool who is vying for our destruction. And you wonder why so many bad things are happening right now in the world, they will get worse.
It does seem though, the government needs to make a solid ruling on what marriage is, and it should be defined by a majority of the people, and not brought down by the judiciary. Otherwise, simply stating that it's unconstitutional to define marriage as between a man and a woman seems to make positions against plural marriage unjustifiable, or even people marrying animals... obviously there has to be an agreed upon standard.
Also, I don't understand why society doesn't focus more on changes in hospital and insurance regulations to allow individuals to designate beneficiaries... it seems like that would solve some of the problems.
Please give references to this statement. I have not heard, "Thus sayeth the Lord." Where did you hear, read this?
What I the Lord have spoken, I have spoken, and I excuse not myself; and though the heavens and the earth pass away, my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same.
God created male and female. Children are born to a man and a woman. The natural order would provide children with a father and a mother--a family.
All the rights of being born a citizen of America are given to everyone regardless of how we orientate our sexual preference. Any of us can choose to get married under the definition of marriage being between a man and a woman. Any of us can choose freedom, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness and any other equalities granted us.
The only thing under attack here is marriage. Marriage as we know it, if redefined, will be destroyed. Redefining marriage will not give gays any more rights than they already have, it will just mean that we, society, accept their actions. Tolerance is not acceptance. Do what you will but don't force us to accept it on the same level of moral actions.
I unconditionally love everyone, but I do not unconditionally accept everything they do, and that does not make me less Christlike, it makes me more Christlike. He loves you for more than you do yourself. Wanting more for you isn't hate.
Why you would think that only the heterosexuals should have the privileges of marriage other than you think it is normal and natural and children should have both parents. This is a little late for that. The horse is out of the barn and now you want to close the door. Children are born to unwed mothers, homosexuals live as spouses now and have children that they are raising. Is it just a stand for your beliefs, or is it trying to punish those who live a different kind of life than what you think they should.
This gay bashing by your church must stop.
Until it does, I will feel no guilt whatsoever in promoting hatred against the Mormon church.
You reap what you sow, sheep people!
Being younger, I don't know as much as other people do about this long, drawn out issue. However, this I do know: agency is there for all. I am so blessed to live in the United States. But God gave us agency as a test. He knew it would be hard, so he gave us commandments, guidelines, to help us along the way. Being homosexual doesn't make someone a bad person. Not in the least! But it doesn't fit into His plan for us - it wasn't supposed to be that way.
To The Real Tragedy:
I'm very sorry for your loss. But keep strong and always look to God as a friend and teacher.
And to Steve: Thank you. I completely agree.
As for being called a bigot. Who cares. Homosexuals throw that word around so much that it is now meaningless. It's a label that gets put on anyone who disagrees with them.
If your family members are so weak as to leave because they felt a stigma then they are to blame not the church. I'll stand for truth no matter what the world thinks.
Society has been redefining itself for centuries and it has proven to have been for the better. We got rid of slavery (and slavery was approved in the Scriptures), we started treating women like people instead of property (unlike the "traditional" societies) etc, etc, etc.
"It takes a man and a woman to create a child. Every child should have the right to be born into a family with a mother and a father."
But they DON'T have that right and many children have grown up as orphans.
"How great the goodness of our God who set up familial units to have a mother and a father!"
He didn't. Learn some history. During most of "traditional" society, your average marriage lasted about eleven years before one member of the couple was DEAD, usually the woman through childbirth. Thats how "God/nature" made human society and mankind has been desperately trying to improve the crappy product.
�To deprive an intelligent human being of his free agency is to commit the crime of the ages. To every man is given an inherent power to do right or to do wrong. In this he has free agency. He may choose the right and obtain salvation, or he may choose evil and merit abomination."
�Unwise legislation, too often prompted by political expediency, is periodically being enacted that seductively undermines man's right of free agency, robs him of his rightful liberties��
�A fundamental principle of the gospel is free agency, and ... may become a measuring rod by which the actions of men, of organizations, of nations may be judged.�
How could the LDS Church, who suffered so much abuse by those opposed to plural marriage now seek to do the same to gays? Support for the Alaska amendment was from a Regional Rep. and urged "prayerful consideration' After that prayerful consideration, I opposed the amendment.
Since that time, the judicial climate has changed, and the Prophet has spoken.
I support & will be obediant to that Prophet.
Please provide a reference for the "growing body of evidence supporting a genetic basis for homosexuality".
A clue: There isn't any. Quite the contrary. All studies point away from any genetic and unlikely biological evidence for same-sex attraction. Rather, it points to a developmental disorder.
When you find a male twin who is gay, there is only a 50% chance his identical twin is also gay. Their genetics are identical. You can hardly think of a better study situation than this.
People will be judged by God only. No one can assume that all homosexuals will go to hell, and the same for homophobics, racists, and EVERY ONE ELSE. We will all be judged for who we were and what we did on earth. NO ONE will be stuck in a group. We will all be judged individually.
I am standing up for God, for my religion, and for myself. And I ain't going about it quietly, either.
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And don't give me any of that "they learned about it from being descendants of Noah" bit. Genesis is an allegorical parable with zero supporting evidence and a mountain of evidence against it.
If a hunger for liberation destroys morality then immorality will destroy liberty. The homo faction of evil is proceeding under the fashionable banner of liberation. Such trends do not a truth but a tragedy make. Deafness to scriptural history is fatal. The more normal abnormalities seem the less reason people have to be wary of them. Homosexuals try to normalize immorality so people will not be wary of it. The more coarse and crude people become, the less they are aware of it. "To confuse tolerance with permissiveness can be fatal, since it is like not knowing the difference between a mushroom and a poisonous toadstool." Evil people are not polite pluralists - they are predators. The wicked are never tolerant. The hardness that produces insensitivity toward large-scale abortions and homosexuality will not confine itself to one expression. The insensitivity will spread, it will find other focal points. Once society loses its capacity to say firmly that certain things are wrong per se, then it finds itself forever building temporary defenses, drawing new lines, falling back further, and losing its nerve. A plea for freedom to sin soon ends up in a demand for all to si
Second, when Civil Unions are supported by most Americans and they can be constructed to give similar rights as marraige, why then do the gays insist on demanding heterosexual marrage.
Answer: follow the gay progression
25 years ago--don't bash of hurt me--OK with me
15 to 20 years ago--let us out of the closet and be treated as others--OK with me
5 years ago-- we need civil unions to secure some basic rights--OK with me
NOW--we want to be equal with normal people in every way and redefine something that has already been defined by God--nope, now matter how you try to spin it, I am normal, you are not, and you are abetting the destruction of society.
FUTURE--sue churches to force them to marry them, accuse all opponents of hate crimes (and prosecute if possible), sue to allow adoptions even if the birth mother disagrees, continue to erode boy/man
boundaries. In short, the ultimate goal of gay activism is the destruction of Christianity.
Everyone is asking the wrong question here. They keep asking what would it hurt. While those issues can be argued ad nauseum with neither side conceeding. The question that still remains to be answered is what would it improve? Absolutely nothing! Any benefit gays seek could be, and in many cases already have been accomplished without marriage. I don't expect any increase in happiness in the gay community if gay marriage is legalized. If being gay makes them happy, what does marriage do for them? Make them legitimate in the eyes of God? I think not.
Think about what might have happened if they encouraged their members to do all they could to stop poverty, racism, bigotry, helping those who REALLY need a hand especially now and all the other social ills that are the REAL threats to our country. Aren't there a couple verses in the same bible that cover doing just that? What? Nobody wants to acknowledge those?
Gay marriage is a nice distration from the REAL issues that are destroying our country. It's the magician's assistant. It distracts you from what is going on behind the scenes until it's too late to notice you've been duped.
Shouldn't we expect better from those who profess to be followers of Christ?
Don't parse phrases. The Prophet said use your time and resources (which are gifts of God...if you believe God gave them to you) to combat this attack on our most holy covenant. You need to decide if you will do it or not.
As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.
If fire was God's way of punishing the world for doing stuff He disapproved of, the world would look like an ashtray from the day Eve bit the apple until today.
So much easier to just blame others for whats wrong than to accept our part (i.e. who you voted for time and again because of the letter beside their name) in the way society is heading.
The value is purity/morality. Obedience to that tenet is of extreme importance. President Monson didn't just say "Oh go about your business and accept the destruction of a sacred ordinance/covenant/act". He said use your time and resource to battle it. I now personally wave my rent cloak in support of that statement and challenge all others of like mind to do the same.
Apathy condones. Active pursuit conquers.
As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.
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To the nameless individual that replied to me that homosexuality is flamboyant and rarely ever practices the discipline, restraint, fidelity, trust and patnership - Puhleeese! How many homosexuals do you know and care about? I know many - committed couples and others still looking, many of whose relationships have stood the test of time and the judgment of others. Even the Church has adulterers and abusers. These people have the right to be allowed to commit to a willing same sex partner in love and in the law. They are not threatening you, your children. My marriage certainly isn't threatened by them. Your fear and prejudice has been taught to you.
By the way - in reference to the King James translation - pasty faced old white men with an agenda of their own traslated it!