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LDS Church expresses disappointment in California gay marriage decision
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In society this is protected free speech. We all have it.
Whether members follow church positions when they vote or in how they live their lives is an individual matter.
If a member does not understand or agree with a church position, there is typically no consequence to membership. However, if the individual engages in behavior contrary to the church's beliefs and teachings, the church can take action touching the individual's membership, including restricting or even terminating membership, but the individual at all times retains moral agency to live their lives as they see fit, perhaps just not as a member with attendant rights of membership.
Not all heterosexual couples produce children, some are older, some adopt, some choose not to have children. Why deny people you care about the same opportunities that are available to you?
If you truly value marriage wouldn't you want it for other people who are important to you? Wouldn't you PREFER it for others who are gay?
If California does not have the kind of law Massachusetts does that prevents out of state residents from going there for the sole purpose of marriage, there will be gay and lesbian people in other states who will get married in California and then go to court in Utah and all other states to force the states to recognize their marriages as legal under the "full faith and credit" clause of the US Constitution. The CA Supreme Court has unleashed a storm of litigation that will not end until a Federal constitutional amendment is passed to ensure that states can control the definition of marriage and not have California legislate for the nation. This can win the election for Republicans.
In California, you can bet that churches that do not support or accept gay marriage will be punished for discrimination through taxation.
Why can't the LDS church stand up for its beliefs or it's bigotry, but those opposed to their views can and it's freedom of speech?
BTW, why no venom against the Catholic church? Interesting that no one is railing on them for saying basically the same thing. If you are going to complain about the LDS church being full of hate, figure out why every time something like this comes up, you can't restrain yourself from making hateful comments about the LDS church.
These are the same arguments that were made regarding inter-racial marriage. Once again, trying to legislate YOUR morality on everyone.
Actually, your morality has more to do with the sexual act that you deem to be a sin...not two people living together and caring for (loving) each other, even if they are the same sex.
Your legislating "NO MARRIAGE" will not stop those who actually are loving gay couples from expressing that love to each other.
It merely says, "I am better than you are and can have the governments blessings on my partner and me and you can't because I believe that you sin."
If your son or daughter differs, and believes that marriage is between two human being, people, and then marries someone, so be it? Logical.
When religion got into the bedroom, it just messed things up. We used to have other laws too that just made society a bunch of hypocrites.
We are not far from that today are we.
We have to stop thinking that a third party other than God is doing the "marrying".
Marriage is a phenomenon of nature, and a person's right to marry is a direct result of his/her difference in gender with the other human being. By marrying, we form the complete nature of the human species. The two genders form the complete image and likeness of God.
�And that he created man, male and female, after his own image and in his own likeness, created he them;"
Essentially, the power to mate is the power to marry. The power to marry comes from the difference in gender. The right to marry does not come from a decision to love someone of the same gender. The state, therefore, does not have the power to empower two gay people to marry because two gay people do not have the power to mate, and when you do not have the power to mate, you do not have the power to marry.
Even God Himself cannot join two gay people in marriage.
Divorces," once rare and now common.
As our Father, God expects us to reach, seek and overcome our inherent personal weaknesses, flaws and natural tendencies to do wrong which are part of the mortal experience and inherent in our mortal bodies. He wants us to ultimately become like Him. We all have a long way to go to reach His attainments.
Too many people seek an excuse not to deal with and overcome their challenges, in the case of one poster poster, "Actually", by claiming God created them.
That is like telling your dad you don't want to mow the lawn because you don't feel like it. Still needs to be done. The typical dad, correctly, is not going to agree that you have a right to go another direction because you feel so inclined. He has some work for you to do and it is in your best interest to do it without delay.
People are not born gay; it's a choice.
Just because people can't rid themselves of a self-destructive behavior, doesn't mean they were born that way.
If people were born gay or straight, then in every single set of identical twins, both twins would be either gay or straight. That isn't the case.
The laws of nature give conclusive proof that humans are born heterosexual.
If every human on earth were suddenly made homosexual today, the human race would cease to exist as soon as the last currently living person died.
I'm totally ashamed of members saying this is fine. Follow and trust the prophet..DO NOT FOLLOW SOCIETY.
We can still love people who are NOT born this way, but don't encourage the sin at all.
Religion gives no room for critical thinking nor does it allow one to ask questions. Your mind cannot grow without the ability to critically think and ask questions.
The term "Shepherd" in Western should be insulting! Cognitive reasoning frees you from the herd.
I love her dearly, but I cannot support gay marriage as a morally correct choice. As my daughter says about her relationships, "Nothing lasts forever, Mom." Especially gay relationships!
I don't know what the answer is for gay couples--the realities of their situations can be heartbreaking. Their feelings are powerful and as children of God, they deserve our love and respect--but that does not mean that we who have genuine religious feelings on this issue should be forced to accept the gay agenda, which is less about "marriage" and more about forcing us to support economic issues and special protection under law.
Instead of taxing churches, I'm surprised liberals haven't thought of taxing divorce lawyers. Those of us who saw this coming knew ahead of time to go into divorce law. I gaurantee I will charge the same fees to everyone, and will not discriminate for gender orientation.
So what does this earlier comment say about heterosexual couples who can't procreate? Is there something "wrong" with them too? Surely we can't assume that the ability to have children is a seal of approval of a couple's relationship or a person's choice of lifestyle.
Seperation of Church and State means the State does not condone or favor ONE specific religion over a another. PERIOD Example: to run for President you must be a Baptist or Catholic. Sad but the Courts have 'made law' and warped this constitutional point to mean that it is illegal to disply the 10 commandments in a public place or sing Christmas songs in public schools.
Now if the Court said you must publicly profess a beleif in these same ten commandments in order to do perform 'legal' civic or business transaction... that would be a violation of the Chruch and State doctrine. Obvioulsy our society falls far short of such unreasonable demands. Yet there are the few that freak out. Now, aren't they special getting their way and overruling the majority? Sicko
Oh please...........
The LDS, however, does not support particular political candidates or parties. EVERY election season a letter from the First Presidency is read over the pulpit to LDS congregations across the country, urging them to get involved in the political process, to study the issues and candidates, and to vote according to their own personal convictions. NOT ONCE have I ever been told to vote for a particular political candidate or party.
The courts have overturned the will of the people of California by saying that it's unconstitutional to deny gay people the right to marry, and YOU say that the will of the people is MORE important than any court decision? Then tell me, if the will of the people wanted to bring back slavery, and even pass a constitutional amendment to do that, SHOULD WE JUST LET THAT HAPPEN? The courts exist to interpret and define the laws, so that just in case some law should be made that isn't consistent with the WHOLE law, things can be made right. Did you sleep thru your civics classes?
Thankfully for you, there is still time to change your view. How much time? God only knows.
Their statement was that they were "disappointed" in the Supreme Courts decision. Have you ever expressed that you were "disappointed" in anyone/anything. I'm pretty sure you anti LDS people have. Once again, HYPOCRISY!!!!!!
The United States is not and was never intended to be a "democracy". The reason for that is democracy is really nothing more than mob rule in the guise of the state.
Instead, voters select old and wise representatives to draft laws for them. In this case, like the judges of California, since, unfortunately, the republican system is degenerating into direct democracy and roles in different branches of the government are becoming muddled.
I have known some humans that are very close in manner to our canine friends. Maybe dogs are of a different spices, but many humans have all the characteristics of a dog. People even treat their dogs like they were humans, dress them up, brush their hair, go for a trip to the dog parlor, sleep in the same bed with their humans, and have a T-bone steak now and then with their devoted owner. Sounds and looks Like dogs rule.
As far as gay people go, they are certainly a different spices of humankind. But who am I to condemn them? I will leave that entirely up to God to be their judge. It's not for me to judge them or anyone else.
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If the Lord's prophet and apostles feel strongly about something, I think that it would be in my best interest to listen.
I am grateful that there is an institution such as the church that is willing to give direction, regardless of how unpopular it may be. I live in an area where most people have no direction, and it's not good. I do care what the church says.