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Cyrus-fan mom sounds off

As someone with two disabled family members, I'm sympathetic to disability issues, but come on, Ms. Strong. Reality check: BYU *has* made a reasonable attempt to accommodate you and your daughter--which is the intent of the ADA. When equal access is provided, as it has been, BYU *has* complied with the law.

True, BYU should *communicate* their advance-notice expectation better--but attempting to force them to install extremely expensive equipment that nobody else to date has apparently asked for, just in case YOU show up, is WAY too heavy-handed. If you want to advocate for the disabled, cool--but better PR skills at minimum will come in handy, since you unfortunately come across as a bitter woman with an ax to grind.

It's a great and noble thing to speak up for the truly disadvantaged who are caught in an inhumane and unjust situation, and who are actually being denied equal access in any form. It's another thing altogether to make irrational demands and scream about discrimination just because somebody didn't do a good enough job of waiting on you hand and foot. Sadly, too much legal and media attention has been given to the latter.

Let's look at this objectively.

She is the first person to request this device. And while, yes, BYU's ticket office badly mismanaged the situation--ok, horribly mismanaged it--they made a reasonable effort to meet her needs. Still, she is insisting they spend millions to to install 2,600 devices when only a few are needed.

If indeed this is the law that 2,600 devices be installed and only one person has requested it. What really needs to be changed? LaVell Edwards Stadium or the law? Sounds like an overreaching law to me.

I understand the situation was frustrating, but for Ms. Strong to call BYU "discriminatory" when they have accommodated is downright myopic. Shame on her for misusing that word because that word should only be used when there is real bigotry to expose.

I am courious to know if Mrs. Strong has filed a complaint to every school district in the state that doesn't have such a hearing device in their auditoriums that seat more than fifty. What about the class rooms that have more than 50 students in them.

This woman is out in left field (or would be if this were a baseball stadium)! Where is the problem? The stadium officials are making accomodations for her daughter three and a half months in advance of the event. She made the call and BYU responded. She is upset because they do not have thousands of listening devices on hand that will apparently go unused because no one has asked for one previously. This is they type of politically correct nonsense that such an extreme interpretation of the ADA will encourage.

Why is it that every person in the world has to have a gripe about something that doesn't suit them, or someone they know, perfectly. You don't see me flying off the cuff when I go to a football game and can't see because I'm height impaired and the stadium 'didn't provide a booster seat' for me so that I could see over other people's craniums. I'm empathetic for the situation that afflicts her daughter. However, to expect that the world will bend over backwards for you, is unreasonable.

Everyone of you are missing the point. (You probably all have good hearing too.) The only reason BYU is complying is because this lady just happened to call in advance. If she had not, then her daughter would have been out of luck.

THIS IS A PROBLEM.

I'm not saying BYU needs to install 2600 devices, but the fact that they had NONE on hand shows their lack of preparation and disregard for the hearing impaired.

People have not requested this device because they (rightly) assume it will not be available.

This woman is fighting for her daughter's rights that you all wish to deny her.

BYU - Get off the dime and install some of these devices!! You and all these posters here should be ashamed. I am embarrassed for you.

Yeah, I'd have to side with BYU on this one. I think they were more than accomodating. Mrs. Strong should cut the reps there some slack for not knowing about the listening device.

I think Mrs. Strong harbors deep resentment, because she and her daughter may have been the victims of discrimination in the past. This would explain why she got so defensive so quickly. Instead of jumping up and down in anger, she should take time out and teach others instead of condemning them.

Don't you think saying that BYU "is discriminating against my daughter" is a bit personal. You think they went out of their way to pick on you and your daughter? Let's be reasonable, this world is not that ADA friendly. I feel discriminate against when I see 15 open handicap parking spots and there are no other open parking spots. How many times are these spots NOT filled?! I understand her political angle, get more attention to the issues that affect her daughter. But come on, you really expect that BYU should have all of this equipment on hand just in case? Whiner!

I can't understand a hearing disability that needs accomodation like that.... Shouldn't her daughter have a hearing aid if she has trouble like that? Second of all, if she doesn't need a hearing aid, then the sound system isn't enough!!! Come on, people are almost deaf coming out of BYU games. like they are not going to up the gigawatts for Miley Cyrus??? Reality check!!! Secondly Lavell Edwards stadium is property of BYU. Shouldn't a not for profit org. like the university be given some leeway on that.

I have nothing against people with disabilitys. In fact, both of my parents are disabled, but I feel this woman is going a little too far in this situation....

Keep some of the portable devices on hand for those who need them?

A little sensitivity training wouldn't hurt, either.

Come on ... the Y should just send down a box or two of these from SLC every MAJOR event. They need to provide it, not install it permanently ... If I were concerned that one would not be there, I would buy my own and bring it with me everywhere I go.

Come up with a solution, not just a problem you want someone else to fix (the cost benefit to the public doesnt make sense). If I am bald, should they have to provide me shade while I sit in LES?

You know, sometimes in life you can't have everything you want. I wanted to play in the NBA, but not being especially gifted at basketball, I work in a different profession. I didn't sue anybody because I lacked certain abilities to excel at basketball. You take what life gives you and you do the best you can.

I think thy should only have to install a few listening devices. Not 2600! there won't ever be that many people who wil need it.

It really does not matter one whit that they did not have any on hand. They made it clear that she needed to contact them ahead of time and they would accomodate her. This is what they offered to do. That is all the ADA calls for, reasonable accomodation. Some organizations will choose to have such systems "on hand", others will choose to provide them upon request. This is reasonable.

This whole thing is just another example of our litigation-happy society. And a rather sad example at that.

This woman just taught her daughter that if you complain loudly enough, someone else will take care of you. Another child is taught to eschew personal responsibility in favor of the victim mentality and the appeal of a quick fix and easy money. These are the seemingly little things that are slowly, but surely, eroding the foundations of our society.

Sad indeed.

Ridiculous- get real. OF COURSE it's the only reason BYU is complying with Ms. Strong. Their policy is in place exactly to accomodate those such as her. As for having no hearing devices on hand-The event is 3 months away! We shouldn't even be concerned that they aren't on hand today, just as long as they are in place when people need them. As long as they make effort to meet the daugher's needs they are good. That's all ADA is about anyway (although some take it too far). What do you expect next- the performer to be on hand just because of a whim?

could spend the few hundred dollars for a couple of portable devices, it wouldn't kill them. And for those of you complaining about this woman's complaint - BYU's current policy of "we'll accomodate you with advance notice" is the same thing as saying to a wheelchair-bound person "oh, we'll build a ramp when you get here, IF you let us know in advance"... preposterous.

It looks like BYU made a mistake in not keeping some portable devices on hand. However, since this is apparently the first request in the dozens of years that LES (or Cougar Stadium, as it was once known) has been around, it seems forgivable. It sounds like they were apologetic and tried to do what they could do appease this woman, accommodate her daughter, and rectify their mistake. I'm sure they'll have the devices in the future. However, I am amazed at this woman's selfishness and pettiness--using the word discrimination to describe an honest mistake is harmful to the word itself. When there is actual hatred and discrimination in this world, to misuse the word, thereby diluting its meaning, to try and get a little attention is shameful.

d-news is scraping the bottom of the barrel for news today. Next article!

I think someone's just after money and to make a stink against the Church and BYU.

As the father of 2 disabled children I can see how this mother would want things for her daughter. But her tactics of taking this to the media are wrong. BYU offered to assist her and they have plenty of time to get prepared. She became impatient because her phone calls were routed around. Which is frustrating.

These kids have enough worries in life that they don't need to be paraded about in the media. These are matters that can be handled privately without the child becoming a political pawn. It seems to me that the mother is more concerned about herself and what she is feeling than she is about her daughter. I wonder if she even thought this might be embarrassing to the girl.

It is good to be concerned about the disabled. But LES is a football stadium and hosts one event a year where a device like this might be needed. They certainly aren't needed at football games.

I wish this family well, but choose your battles wisely.