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Utah leads the nation in rates of depression
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So there you have it.
Living proof of the negative effect conservatism plays on people.
So many rules. So much competition. So many unmet expectations.
I'm glad I'm a happy-go-lucky free-wheelin' liberal!
Reading the comments on Utah's depression story seems to prove my point.
I spent a fair amount of my life in other states and overseas. It amazes me that Utah is the most culturally and religiously divisive place I have ever lived in.
People of other religions where lived were never as exclusive as "LDS faithful" are to non-LDS people in this state. With the large missionary effort of the LDS church, I wrongly imagined Utah to be the friendliest state ever. And as every turn deserves a good turn, most non-LDS people I know have nothing good to say about their �LDS faithful� neighbors. Open religious intolerance towards the LDS church is widely accepted in public print and in open discourse.
So, until the unlikely event that LDS and non-LDS can accept and tolerate each other, I predict Utah will always be divisive state. Unless Utah�s citizens can find happiness in the convictions that cause this mutual dislike, it will always be unhappy place.
I haven't even read any of the comments here but I bet I know what they are going to say. You know the same old stuff you see in these forums almost every day.
"Wild World," "Moon Shadow," "Father and Son,"Oh Very Young," and countless others that are still wildly popular today, I'd say what has happened is that Cat Stevens has left a volume of meaningful, provocative and culture-changing music.
Now tell me about Orrin Hatch's greatest hits, Rich.
I know I have to go." ("Father and Son")
If this song upsets you Rich, maybe you are feeling trapped. I understand that is a common dilemma within an ultra-conservative setting.
1. Bishops & SP's are now far more familiar than they were with clinical depression that in the past - still needs work!
2. Depression is more than just "feeling the blues" stressed - it is a medical condition that in my limited observation seems to be mostly inherited but can be treated. My wife has a member of her family that committed suicide because of depression. He wasn't a member, but that's not the point.
3. Those in the Church suffering from depression may have once been encouraged to avoid medical help by well meaning members - this is wrong. The Word of Wisdom can solve many things, but we cannot let that belief (or hobby horse for some), cause members to avoid treatment.
4. LDS wanting to self-medicate likely turn to prescription drugs, since after all they are "prescribed". The fact these people all get into computerized medical systems increases the numbers that get reported.
5. Bishops were told explicitly several years ago to NOT counsel members on FAMILY SIZE and WHEN to get married. I never ever told a returned missionary it was "time" to get married.
That being said, I am constantly amazed when I read the Deseret News "comment" section, how prevelant anti-mormon sentiments are in Utah. Get over it, folks! See people for the goodness that they possess, not a mere title or religion they esteem. None of us are perfect and few people profess to be. How grateful I am to live in a community that supports and respects me for what I believe and doesn't blame every mishap of society upon my belief system. Unbelievable, indeed.
They tell their flock to exercise their free agency then turn around and tell them exactly what they are supposed to do.
Believe me, I know.
It's no wonder Utah leads the nation in depressed souls.
People are liberal by nature, and they are told to resist these natural, wonderful tendencies.
I thought it was funny that people were blaiming the high demands of the LDS church. What do they recommend, that we "lower the bar", or be more content with mediocrity? In everything we do, work, school, sports, we set high standards and push ourselves to hit them, thats how progress is made. I dont know about you but depression hits me when I'm sitting around being lazy, not when im working my butt off to meet my high standards.
Then he was baptized in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in 1995 and the miracle began. My dad today is a different human being. He knows first had the difference between being in the church and out of the church. He knows first hand what the world has to offer and the church. The proof is in the pudding for this happy son who has an amazing father.... no one could convince me otherwise. I think depression is individual. I've seen the rich, the blest, the powerful, the famous with it. I've seen the heathen, the "believer", and the philosopher with it. For all the pressure on the mormons, I think the pressure for them is to get out of debt, live within their means, put first things first, get organized, devote themselves to their families, repent, serve, love, and have holsum fun....sounds like a cure for depression not the cause!
Maybe do some research instead of "I knew it was the mormons!" or "This weather is the culprit!"
Do a quick search of Mormon & depression on Google Scholar and you'll find that it's pretty clear that there is no clear effect of being LDS on one's mental health. This relationship is only apparent to religious bigots.
Seriously, such a ranking is not necessarily a bad thing if it equates to more people getting the appropriate medical care they need to treat their illness. Perhaps, it may imply more accurate reporting than many other states.
Or again, maybe Utah is just doom and gloom. I for one like it here and only get depressed on an occasional basis.
The standard one that Mitt Romney said was "God's word" 5 times in a matter of seconds?
Or the "restored" version, that is the "truest book ever wrote?"
I am starting to see more and more just why it is there is so much depression in this culture.
These are some massively confused puppies in a incredibly convoluted setting.
In the end - is God going to worry about the beverage you had or how much time you spent judging your neighbors?? Is God going to measure the number of children you have or be pleased with you being a good parent of 2 or 3 healthy and happy kids??
I am sorry for those of you who were born and raised here and may never understand what the rest of us find so obvious. Enjoy your life - put quality in it and stop filling it up with misguided aspirations for perfection. On earth we are only human - so worry about today and just be kind to yourself and those around you. That's good enough!
It's part of the current health care system (Hospitals, drug companies) who profit with the people's health.
Enough is Enough, we need a UNIVERSAL Health Care System. I don't care if I have to pay more taxes if that will give me access to preventive and corrective health care and I can live with peace of mind NOT depressed and filing for bankcrupcy like many people is doing because they CAN NOT pay they medical bills. Called Socialist Medicine or whatever, but I call it a solution to live with dignity as an U. S. citizen.
The statistics in this study are not wrong. What IS wrong is the way most of the people on this thread interpret them.
I'm not so sure about the questions either; anyone who has recently ended a serious relationship would likely qualify as "clinically depressed" based on the questions of the survey as I read them. This includes me. And I'm never depressed; I am, however, very down about a breakup a month back and so I'd likely be another negative statistic in this survey.
It's not so much about high standards as it is about unattainable standards, i.e., perfection. And the constant pressure to attain the unattainable.
I've lived in CA and FL and now reside in WI. The winter can get bleak at times and even bleaker when one parks their can on a sofa watching despondent programming. Maybe Hollywood's greatest achievement is to make us depressed simply by watching shows which feature amoral morons we would never invite into our homes.
Get off your rear and exercise. You'll feel better and you have the added benefit of using a healthy body instead of a toxic one.
We were created to be active, helpful, and doing good instead of reflecting on the good we haven't accomplished.
I am sorry about your depression. Honestly, you do not need to worry about who is reading the DN.
I am a practicing LDS woman in my 30's, mother of 2 and a user of anti-depressant drugs for much of my adult life. I have had successful periods without them as well. A few thoughts:
1)Anti-depressants saved my life. I was suicidal as a teen and counseling wasn't enough. The drugs helped because they addressed a BIOLOGICAL, CHEMICAL problem in my brain. Why are those who take anti-depressants fair game for ridicule? The brain is an organ just like the heart, liver, kidneys or lungs and sometimes needs medical treatment. Sure, they might be prescribed too often, but often they help when nothing else will.
2)The LDS church has done a great deal to help me with my mental health issues. I even received wonderful PPD counseling (from an independent, licensed professional)with the help of Church funds.
3)It's simple-minded to blame OR completely discount an LDS-depression connection. Think, don't spew nonsense!
4)I have many out-of-state, non-LDS friends, and their rates of depression seem high. Some medicate with alcohol (which is a depressant!)
5)Natural cures may help, but many are largely untested and even they can have serious side-effects! Natural doesn't automatically equal safe.
Peace!
It's not so much about high and unattainable standards set by some Mormons,
it's the constant sanctimonious, tooting their own horn about achieving these.
The rest of us go about these things in a quiet, private manner not interested in setting ourselves apart but working together.
LDS in Utah and elsewhere have the same demands on time, family, perfection etc. The church is not the cause of so much depression. I was in Florida and depressed but it had nothing to do with the church.
Miss Synthia Forsyth; you are probably depressed because you apparently insist on calling yourself Miss Synthia Forsyth. Life is great, live a little. You can follow the gospel principals and still have an enjoyable life. Also, people from outside Utah read the Deseret News because they have ties to the community and want to know whats going on there.
Following that logic, it isn't surprising that when Exxon funds (through a think tank) research on global warming, the conclusion is that it is not man mad and that hydorcarbon consumption has nothing to do with it.
Depression is very real in Utah, but ask your great grandparents who lived in the early 1900's in SLC how bad the inversions got and how black that haze was. I have, and it wasn't black and as depressing before the automobile use became so prevalent and before industrial giants like Geneva were pumping tons of light blocking particulates into the air.
Take care of the environment in the valley and you will see mental health improve, either that or use my cure, a good day of skiing where you get both endorphins and a clean dose of sun without the haze.
- Depression is very complicated and very personal. Many, many factors are involved including your own chemistry, diet, your upbringing, your culture, etc., etc. I have discovered for myself that junk food and sugar is the main factor. Ice cream is the devil.
- If you want to be happy, be moderate in all things *. Don't overeat, over-medicate, or over-sex yourself. Don't over-obsess on your religion, on what you are doing wrong or right, on what others are doing or not doing that doesn't effect you. Don't worry about what others think of you, if it doesn't effect them.
- Love people more (especially your family), be more charitable, be more forgiving, and have more faith that things will be better, that you can make things better, when you are having a bad day.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that lack of access and affordability shouldn't be used to calculate the rate of depression.
If people in Utah lack access to mental health services because they live farther from mental health facilities than people in Hawaii, Maryland, New Jersey . . . well, duh. Utah, Idaho, Wyoming, and Nevada are much bigger than those states, and therefore many residents will automatically live farther away.
Finally, more Utahns may not be able to afford the cost of health care because they have lower incomes and more children per capita than the rest of the nation.
It's a stupid formula and a meaningless statistic.
When a person's personal power is stripped so entirely from them - depression is sure to follow.
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