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Abuse lawsuit alleges widespread problems with Mormons, Boy Scouts
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A local paper said this when he was running for Governor, "In a fascinating profile at that time on Clark, Taylor Clark of Willamette Week wrote, �He is a sex offender who has made a mint defending the sexually abused, and he�s also a former gay-rights advocate being paid to dismantle the biggest gay-rights victory in Oregon history. Clark sees no inconsistency, because in both cases he says he is motivated by the same dominating passion: disgust with the misuse of power. �I get to represent the little guy going up against the big guy,� he says. �I absolutely love that, whether it�s the church, the government, insurance companies, banks.��
He has an axe to grind, but I find it hilarious that he himself is a sex offender and everyone is jumping on his band wagon. Somebody needs to sue him.
Kelly Clark is no slouch when it comes to making newspaper headlines. Oregon voters may have forgotten that back in 1992 Clark broke into an ex-girlfriend's house, disconnected the phone line and subjected her to what the courts characterized as "sexual contact without consent," according to Phil Stanford of the Portland Tribune.
The LDS church, on teh other hand, makes its Scouting assignments at the local level. In the hierarchy that exists in the church, it is the immediate ecclesiastical leader (the bishop) that makes the assignment. No one farther up the church's leadership chain reviews the assignment. There are no mechanisms in place to reassign a Scout leader caught abusing children to another place. Instead, the local bishop and/or stake president notate the leader's church record, and that person should not be assigned to a calling involving children thereafter. To insinuate that the Church (SLC) knew about "all these abusers" and covered it up, is assinine.
Why isn't he suing the pornography industry; and movies, TV commericals and shows that glamorize the sexualization of children and self-indulgence?
And by the way, they've got zilch to do with this case anyway.
Ridiculus. Throw Mr. Dykes in Jail and throw away the key. And while your at it revoke Mr. Clark's right to practice law. This should be a criminal case and not a case against a religion or scout program sniffing out the deepest pockets. Restitution is seeing that man/abuser in jail for the rest of his life.
My sympathy goes out for any true victim of abuse.
I think that the problems are societal rather than particular to our church. When this lawyer starts suing providers of pornography, school districts with teachers who have been convicted for abusing children, day care centers, YMCAs, sports teams, etc., and donating his entire profit to help the victims of childhood abuse, then I would believe that he is doing it for a good purpose.
My husband and I work hard to protect our children. We do not let them around unsupervised males of any age. We don't send them over to homes where we are at all uncomfortable with the grown-ups in the homes.
One major area of concern is that people in the schools and church (remember it's societal) treat us like we are real dim bats when we protest that one leader or teacher should not be alone with one child. We have had to do this repeatedly. We've approached primary presidents, scout leaders, a principal, teachers, and church leadership. They do not look after our children like we do.
We have to make sure our children are safe.
but allow the kind of vituperative venom that spews forth from the mouth of "faithful" members.
Really folks....you might want to take a look at the way members live their religion...then you shouldn't wonder why people are leaving the church in droves!!
Members are driving people are out...just like Christ did the money changers...and yet THEY are the "money changers"!!
You win for funniest comment on this subject. Maybe he is trying to make the world a better place. Well maybe if he wasn't a convicted sex offender himself, we might by that, but you are really stretching it. If we paid garbage men what attorney's make, your comment might make sense. But there is a big difference. Garbage men are taking out the trash, while attorney's are packaging it up and making it look pretty.
However, looking at the postings the biggest difference between the Catholic lawsuit and the LDS is that the Catholic lawsuits involved their priests who were accused of doing the molesting. Scoutmasters do not have any ecumenical authority in the LDS Church like the Catholic priests. The alledged victim should sue the individual in civil court. However, when money is concerned the most Christlike person can change to a vengeful person.
First of all, I am certain that the abuse was done by a small percentage of men, that most priests were wonderful, dedicated Christians. I'm sure that the vast majority of all Catholics were unaware of the abuse, and would have been appalled and outraged by it had they known.
The fact of the matter is that for many years it was not known that abusers were almost impossible to change or cure. I'm sure when caught, the abusers were (or portrayed themselves to be`) deeply repentant. So, often they were allowed to go into counselling, be deemed "cured", and were moved to another locale where they could get a fresh start. At that point, they usually began again abusing other youth.
Over time we have come to know that almost none of these abusers can reform themselves. I don't know anyone who blames average Catholics. Even those in charge probably didn't realize what they were unleasing on an unsuspecting parish. Now, we know and, hopefully, we can all do better at protecting our children.
Just because it worked for you doesn't mean it works for everyone. We had a similar situation, and notified SLC. They just pushed it back down to the local leaders who then just got angry because we had "tattled" on them to SLC. I was actually called in and reprimanded for "going over their heads!" The authority structure in the Church is the problem.
Yours is the most enlightened comment yet. Abuse in any religious organization is something about which we are learning and becoming better. The puzzling thing is why it can go on so long when some religious leaders claim to have access to some superior form of supernatural knowledge (i.e., "revelation")? Such presumed foreknowledge should prevent these problems in the first place!
If they have done evil, they will answer for it to God. If they have shown extremely poor judgment, they will answer for that.
However much we desire that these situations be handled correctly each and every time, it is true that humans are FALLIBLE. Some people have made mistakes that have hurt some of you terribly, and for that I and all good members of the Church apologize and sorrow with you.
I do think that society in general has become much more aware of these types of problems of abuse and are dealing with them in more appropriate and aggressive ways.
Please don't blame God or the Church in general because some individual screwed up. We are strongly opposed to abuse of any type, and any experience that you had contrary to what we teach and are taught was an abomination and an anomaly.
Yes, LDS leaders are fallible, including the very top leaders! You cannot draw a line in the Church hierarchy to distinguish the fallible from the infallible leaders. Those at the very top must take responsibility for "calling" the fallible, sinful ones who perpetrate these crimes.
Several people have reported in this forum that they witnessed crimes that occurred during sacrament meeting.
I don't know about you, but when I see a crime, I call the cops, not my bishop. In fact, there is a moral duty to notify the authorities if a crime has been committed.
Don't expect your bishop to be a police officer. In most cases, he's not trained to investigate crimes. If he is trained, it's probably a conflict of interest for him to investigate a crime which involves his own congregation. Act like a responsible adult. If you see a crime, report it.
Having said this, I think this lawsuit is 90% financially driven; with a side helping of media showmanship on the part of the lawyer.
The key difference between the LDS church and the Catholic church, where sexual abuse is concerned, is that the LDS church does not employ its Bishops, Stake Presidents, etc, etc. No church leader at a local or regional level is paid for his or her work. There is nothing legally binding about a church calling. Therefore it will be difficult for any lawyer to argue that the church had a legal responsibility to "control" an abusive member.
The LDS church has no such control. They can strip a person of their membership in the church, that's about it. Everything else is up to the local cops. If these grown men want justice, they should pursue the matter through the police on an individual basis.
Given these obvious realities, how safe are the boys?
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Everyone knows that the Catholics, the LDS, Baptists, Muslims, Buddhists, etc., all frown on sexual abuse. None of them want abuse of any sort. We institute laws and programs to prevent it, but abuse still happens.
My fear is that we will soon be banned from hugging or even acknowledging our youth (as the new answer to protecting them). We will abandon programs that support and engage them in a positive way. Indeed, it could someday become so extreme that we simply become separated from our families as soon as we're born (in order to protect the kids from adults).
Crazy? I don't know...I am already very careful around youth of any sort - parents look at you with paranoid glares if you even smile anymore.
I'm not denying things happen - they do. How do we sustain community, human caring, and love despite the threats against us? Who can we trust?