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3 East High football players arrested, kicked off team
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First story: Mom and dad complain to the principal because the coaches are walking around the locker room watching their son naked as he changes his clothes. They want to have that pervert coach removed.
Second story: Mom and dad complain because their son was attacked in the locker room. They want to know where were the coaches? They should be fired because they aren't doing their job, watching the boys in the locker room.
Sounds stupid. NO, As a high school teacher and administrator for 29 of my 33 years in education I faced these same comments regularly. Half the parents wanted the coaches to walk the locker room all the time and the other half didn't want the coaches watching their sons dress and undress.
After a shooting on campus and a police investigation we found there were at least 30 students who knew the shooter had a gun, but didn't want to rat him out. You would think somehow we administrators would know he had the gun, after all 30 students knew it. On a campus of 4800 kids, 365 staff and 50 acres we didn't know everything.
Whether or not they originally "intended no harm" is debatable, but regardless of their intent or they way the media may or may not have blowen the story "WAY out of proportion; the lives of others have been seriously and negatively affected by the choices and behavior of the attackers.
I don't believe the "people of the world have forgotten that these students are still people". This story unfortunately became real when three of your peers decided three other peers were not still people worthy of respect.
I'd be interested to know what you think the attackers did, and how the community should go about giving them and their victims the support they need.
I'm sure right now the leader of this pack is having the conversation with his parents that should have occurred at the time he learned of, witnessed or felt this same assualt upon himself.
Thank God for the judicial system to now determine punishment. For not knowing is not a defense. If incarerated they will learn real sexual assualt. Be careful when they r released.
gee VLADIMIR, at least we have a nation....you don't.
We trampled the pledge of allegience in school, we banned school prayer. We banned Christmas and gave you "winter break"... We rewrote history books to banish religious references and watered down moral codes.
Our teachers/professors have institutionalized your kids to hate America and have no respect for the office of the Presidency. School boards are now staffed with humanists and there is no longer a right or wrong, just excusable shades of gray.
We are breaking down your family. Even marriage is a meaningless definition now.
Kids who act out are fed medications instead of receiving correction. Stern words might offend someone, so it is replaced with "feel good" phrases that won't get us sued.
Should you really be all that surprised it has come to this? Why? Your children are exactly what you are teaching them to be.
Sick..... dellusional.....self absorbed and unconcerned with what is morally right or wrong. After all, what is right or wrong all depends on your individual opinion, does it not?
Don't blame liberals, you live in the most conservative state in the U.S., by a long, long way. Maybe if you lived in Mass. you could chaulk this up to acceptance of gays, but the face is these boys probably have/had girlfriends, and still think they're straight, despite being rapists.
It shows a gross ignorance of liability issues on the part of the school/coaches that this was able to happen three times before they knew about it.
Cancel the season. The kids knew it was happening and did nothing. And what kind of a school still uses its showers? Join the 21st century and ban the showers. Most schools already have for this very reason. Harassment and rape.
Reading some of the posts that some coaches knew about muggings and other "hazing" acts makes me wonder why aren'tthere at least 3 supervisors or coaches in the locker room until the last student leaves? If I were the coach of East High, I'd wonder if the parents of the alledged victim were going to sue in civil court since it happened under his supposed supervision under "n loco parentis".
Bullying or threatening horseplay among juveniles is inappropriate behavior and should be condemmed, but rushing to judgement and demanding long prison sentences or worse without knowing all the facts serves no one.
Allegations levelled by the prosecutor do not equate to knowing all the facts.
However, one really wonders why we incarcerate all children in schools for 12 years (more or less). Most kids get ample education in the first six years of school to fit into civilization. So, trade schools, apprentice programs, or even voluntary labor makes much more sense. But I suppose the "educational" mafia would oppose anything as reasonable.
You don't suppose MTV taught them the same way they taught the Abu Grabb soldiers do you? Hmmm, let me stick my head in a hold and hope it goes away.
Oops, wait, I forgot, music or movies or TV doesn't affect kids behaviour.
I'm not completely blaming the parents and I'm certainly not blaming the coach. The young men are the criminals. But young people need supervision at home, at school, and at play. It's that simple. Adults need to act like adults, parents like parents, because teens will certainly act like teens, and without clear and reinforced rules, one thing might lead to another and before long, crimes like these will be committed. Parents: become and stay aware. Some growing-up sorrows can be avoided. Some can't. This could have been avoided. I am so sorry for the victims and their families.
Our prisons are full of people that have introduced drugs into thier personal bodies, while the violent people get off after minimal time. We are confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is also not an "athelete" thing, it happens in choir, theater, chess and checkers. We live in a world with some sick bullies. Keep your eyes open and go to Karate (but don't go to the restroom alone).
The coach and school did do what they were supposed to do, and I praise them for that, but I'm just amazed that everyone thinks that them doing what any human being should do is so amazing. Now, I'm from Australia, and I don't know any school that even has a sports team, so the thought of a coach ever attempting to cover something like this up is just digusting (not this coach, obivously, but there are people saying others would).
It's not hazing by any means. It's rape and sexual assault. Now, I despise treating people too softly, and while there's definetly a line, I disagree with absolute no-bullying policies (I mean, kids have to toughen up somehow), but this is just dispicable. For people to call something like this simple bullying or hazing really shows how warped our younger generations are becoming.
And I bet if the victims were female, you'd see the word rape 50 times throughout articles on this. But, males (and football players at that) are expected to be tough about it. "Boys will be boys". Please. Rape is rape, regardless of gender or school activities.
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I agree with that other poster that the Coaches are as much to blame for allowing this environment to thrive, even if Student says it wasnt as bad as the news said it was.