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3 East High football players arrested, kicked off team
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I am very happy that "you" were not subjected to repeated rape on school property. As adults it is our responsibility to protect minors from preditors of any age. Any person who has questioned the actions of the "caring coach and administration" has not done it in an attempt to hurt anyone. The facts are what they are, what happened was not an isolated incident but a series of behaviors that cannot be allowed to happen in a place where parents drop thousands of children off daily hoping and praying for their safety.
If "Coach" cares like you say he does, he would be the first to tell you that students need safety and he should be first in line to address this issue so that something like this would never happen again. Honorable people can be negligent in their responsibilities.
Read some of the previous posts from those who have been assauted and be thankful it wasn't you. I don't want it to happen to my children, or anyone elses.
(Funny, all of the posters use different names, but the same adjectives-- does everyone share the same English teacher?-- to describe this awesome man. Question, if he is so wonderful and builds such amazing character, why were there repeated rapes in "his" amazingly wonderful locker room over a two week period by his "awesome" athletes? Things that make you go hmmmmmm???)
Charge them as adults, no leniency (I can't spell either).
This wasn't a hazing. This was an assault by three punks that need a good old fashioned beat down.
It is quite obvious that you've never been the victim of assault (sexual or otherwise). I speak from personal experience when I say that the humiliation of having gone through abuse is bad enough; the last thing you want is for all your friends to KNOW about it.
Associated with this is the feeling that you're somehow to blame, even when your logic assures you you're not. Also, a victim will feel completely alone and alienated--that's why it's almost a relief to learn other people have been through the same thing. There's a reason that once a case is broken, more victims come out since they finally know they're not alone.
This is simple human psychology. Very few people are able to immediately report any kind of abuse, and it's worse when it's sexual abuse. Having to talk to EVERYONE about what you went through only reinforces the pain and makes you relive it time and again. I just pray the victims have a good family/spiritual base and get the counseling they need.
However, the school employee waited TOO LONG to call police. A sex crime should not be reported to the school first and then muddled through school bureaucracy until "the next day." Police should have been called immediately upon the first complaint.
Still to this day many young movie fans drop by the school to take pictures and see where their favorite scenes from the movie where filmed.
I had to mention this because East High is a great school and hope these latest happenings don't take away from some of the better things East is known for.
One adjusted naivete immediately, responded in kind, or folded in shock and withdrew. If the latter happened, there was no school backlash. That person was simply not a football player, very often went on to excel at other things.
Assaulting a tryout kid or new teammate sexually as hazing would have been seen by every single person with any kind of view, kid, adult, player, parent, coaches, admin staff, principals, as the most inconceivably repugnant possiblity. A remote hint would have invoked every horrified authority into stopping perpetrators NOW, no disagreement about whether this was a crime.
That was then. This is now. How did we get from then to this? Stirring mud today won't get us out of it & we can't time travel back.
How should we pray? Your Honor! Tonight flip us all into someplace better than this. I hope it works!
This takes the cake though! Sodomizing another student. This is just awful. The kids that did this not only need to be punished but they also need to be helped.
Isn't it amazing how as society's morals continue to decline behavior in our public schools increasingly resembles behavior in our prisons.
It's all well and good to blame the symptoms, but deny the root cause. If you're not the kind of noble man who can lead a household, if you're not the kind of woman who can respect your husband's authority, if you're not the kind of person who kept your belt buckled before marriage, look in the mirror - you made these boys.
I believe the students should sue the media for hypersexualizing them at an early age. Letting minors watch some movies and television shows or listen to RAP/POP for that matter should qualify as child abuse if not actual molestation.
FRED 2008!
After you completely remove God from every school in the land, what do you have left? It looks like the answer is demons. Imagine going to school every day and having to ward off attacks from incubi and succubi and other red-eyed fiends, and who ya gonna call?
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Well, i am not someone who believes in God, and am someone who completely supports removing such fairy tales from public education - leave that to the parent - but I nor my family would NEVER condom such heinous activities.
I don't need the threat of God or the spectre of the hereafter to protect myself and my children from becoming afflicted by vicious, subhuman behavior.
In fact, given the demographics, these boys WERE likely raised in religious faithful households.
This isn't about God's place (or absence) in schools: this is about parents totally failing at instilling values in their children DESPITE raising them "with God."
It sounds like some people want to face up to the reality of the situation.
Job well done.
No, schools aren't babysitters, but conduct is part of the student's evaluation. Students should be scrutinized for their oonduct, particularly towards other students, and held strictly accountable. Abuse of other students should be as severly punished as drugs or theft -- it is surely as reprehensible.
I don't understand why self-defense class is not mandatory in all lower grades, say 3-7. Yes, boys will be boys (girls, too), whose aggression is natural and hard to control. This's what sports are for. And this is why abuse should not be tolerated any more in lockerooms than in schoolyards or bathrooms.
Hazing, such as silly stunts, can be good-natured, but too easily can become assault. Students intuitively know the limits. Schools should not wait until confronted but should proactively root out bullying and treat as it should be treated -- as a crime.
Uh, we don't know that.
why do these young men have to manifest their desires toward another in such a self-loathing/personal dispensing way?
if they were in a society that could and should love them for who they are, not who they want to love, then maybe they would have boyfriends and be like every other normal teen.
society is to blame. we need more love.
This isn't an assault by homosexuals, but it is sexual power-related gang behavior.
Something stinks about this whole thing, well beyond a Coach getting accolades well after the fact of the abuse occurring. I want to know where the upfront leadership, direction, and example setting was by these so called Sports Educators.
15 year old student athletes dont normally go this far out of bounds of society unless they are assurred they wont get caught and if they do, nothing would be said. The other athletes who remained mum on this are at fault cuz of the coaches
influence.
" No one has answered the question as to the ethnicity of the three violaters.....Why not?"
Uh, what difference does it make on a persons ethnicity? I'm sitting here in Chicago and assume they're all Mormons because this is Utah. Does that sound as foolish and short sighted as your question?
Should make no difference on their color, or religion. If convicted they are rapists, period.
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