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Some say LDS culture is a factor in suicides
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Carol | 4:23 p.m. Oct. 14, 2009
My son dated a Mormon girl when he was in high school and from what she said the
Mormon Church raises their flock to be "clones" of sorts. There is
pressure to be perfect, which of course is unachievable, outside of heaven
itself. I believe the Mormon Church is out of touch with reality in dealing
with any kind of behavior or condition that is outside of their idealistic
vision of themselves. Suicide can never be prevented unless the causes of it
are thoroughly discussed and dealt with. Their unwillingness to deal with
touchy matters will eventually lead to the church's demise over time.
Essentially, these people do not even feel the freedom to be themselves, and
this in itself could be the crux of of what leads to depression and suicide.
The Mormon Church from what I know of it is certainly not a Christian one. As I
read your comment above about this being monitored, I instantly felt how your
members must feel. Suffocated. Let your people be!
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Pamela | 5:46 p.m. Dec. 4, 2009
You are commenting on something you have no idea about. What you call
suffocating, I call my faith. To live a life without the use of drugs, alcohol,
and pre-marital sex is not wrong. It's called morality. People of the
church are human and have frailities as any other people of any other religion.
They commit suicide, they break the law. Does this mean the church will fail?
No, it does not. Just as any other church will not fail due to the actions of a
small portion of their congregation. You do not know the workings of the
church, you do not realize the professional help that is available, you do not
know just because your son 'dated a mormon'. You are ignorant of how
and what this church believes. Since I know nothing about your church, I would
not comment about it. Perhaps you should consider the same
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Jen | 5:27 p.m. March 1, 2010
The Mormon church stigmatizes mental illness and those who suffer from it. As a
former convert, one who is ex-mormon and has suffered from mental illness, the
LDS church was not supportive but very exclusionary. There are other churches
that have more knowledge and less stigma about mental illness than the Mornons.
Thank-you Carol for your comment.
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Lara | 3:38 p.m. March 5, 2010
It was your ward that did that it has nothing to do with the Church as a whole.
Seek help from an actual therapist not just a Bishop or Stake President.
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