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Alone in the fold: Many LDS gays struggle to cling to faith despite their yearnings

This is a great article and I can feel the pain of those who are convinced that there is something higher for them than participating in homosexual activities. Of course the same goes for those who are not homosexual and understand that there is something greater for them than participating in hetrosexual activities before marriage just because society says it is completely natureal and acceptable.

I admire the strength of those who continue to live virtuous lives regardless of the challenges that they face.

Thanks for sharing the inner most feelings of your heart.

My heart goes out to the parents who's son decided to end his own life.

I am now in my 55 year and have struggled with same gender attraction all my life. I have had many ups and downs. I am a returned missionary and attended BYU. I live in California and have read this book multiple times as I struggle to remain faithful. Still living in quiet desperation.

Ive been in reparative therapy, Ive prayed, fasted, attended temple and church meetings and done my best to serve others. This has not gone away. So much money and time has been spent in trying to get this fixed. I hate going to church sometimes because of the comments that I hear. "kill the gays, lets burn them" My heart is broken I cry out to God and there is no answer there is no healing. I feel that in time I too will end up taking the same course as many young latter day saint men do, and just shaking off the chains of mortality, but I personally dont see any other way. Years later and thousands and thousands of dollars later spent in therapy, and hours spent on my knees and nothing. I feel our leader although dear and sweet and loving as they are all to often sweep this issue under the carpet. I don't mean to sound mean or spiteful. I just know from experience that all to often I am told to just keep my self chaste and be quite about the whole thing. Prehaps its time I bought a gun too.

RE: Anthony Brown

Please don't kill yourself. You are loved. Your family loves you, I love you, & God loves you. While dealing with my homosexual attraction, I've learned that I can't hate myself. I've had to learn to love myself, and stop viewing myself as evil. I don't know the answers, but there is always a better path to take. Talk to people close to you about your struggles. Seek for love & acceptance, and let them know that you need that from them. If they try to give uninformed advice, kindly let them know that you've heard it all before, and that's not what you need from them.