Applying the atoning blood of Jesus Christ in order to become more like him is the purpose for mortal existence. People everywhere are challenged throughout life with both common obstacles and "customized trials" such as "illness, aloneness, persecution, betrayal, irony, poverty, false witness and unreciprocated love."
      Such challenges "greatly enlarge the soul, including an enlarged capacity for joy," he said, when they are borne well. "Partaking of the bitter cup without becoming bitter" is part of emulating the Savior.
      Developing submissiveness to God's will and "sharing as best we can the sufferings and sicknesses of others" develops empathy, a vital trait for those who seek eternal life.
      "Strange as it seems, we sometimes respond better to larger challenges than to the incessant, small ones . . . . Enduring large tests while failing the seemingly small quizzes" — like impatience with a spouse or murmuring over minor irritations — "just won't do" if one is serious about becoming like Jesus.