Olympic-sized challenges: Parenting and competition meet at the 2014 Games
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When skeleton athlete Noelle Pikus-Pace looks at videos right after a slide, reviewing with coach Zach Lund what went right or wrong, she’s apt to be holding her daughter, Lacee, in her arms. When the cameras catch them, her cheek is close to Lacee’s as the 5-year-old peers with the same intent look at the little screen.
Pikus-Pace has melded two Olympic-sized tasks. The Orem native is a top contender in skeleton, in which she’ll compete in two weeks in Sochi, Russia, for Team USA as part of the 2014 Winter Olympics. At the same time, she is a very hands-on, full-time mom to Lacee and her little brother, Traycen, 2.
When she slides down that bobsled track in Sochi, her kids will be watching and playing in the snow just a few feet away under the watchful eye of her husband, Janson Pace.
They travel as a team, and her tweets and blog posts contain a happy mix of sports news and mom pride. “My 2 yr old ate fish and broccoli today on his own Huge #MilestoneMoments! Ok & I just finished sliding on my sled & crossed 1” she tweeted a week ago.
She captured her dreams in another post: “Potty training, riding a bike... and winning an Olympic medal :)”
“It’s really crazy. I have had to figure out how to be a mom and an Olympic athlete,” she said with a laugh during a recent phone interview.
She and her husband have to manage their time in sync, so he covers parenting while she’s training. But the most intensely physical, competitive day still begins and ends with hugs from little arms, bookending a day that also contains a bit of snuggling, diaper changing and other typical parenting tasks.
They’ve been all over the world as a quartet for her competitions. She’s not the only Olympic parent, but she is the only one who travels to every competition and training with her entire family.
Parenthood among Olympic athletes is not common, either. In fact, of the 230 athletes who will represent Team USA in Sochi, just 22 have children. Of those, only three are mothers.
Touring and parenting
David Wise, a member of the first-ever U.S. Olympic ski halfpipe team, refers to himself as a “rad dad,” a nod to his standing as the only member of the U.S. freeski team with a child. It is not uncommon to see his wife, Alexandra, and 2-year-old, Nayeli, in the finish area of competitions.
“It wasn’t something I was necessarily looking for,” said the Reno, Nev., native. “I always thought I would get married when I was older. ... But I found a girl I really enjoyed being with, and I realized I better lock it down while I could. I never had any doubts that I found the right person.”
Those with children said that becoming parents actually improves their time-management skills. Nordic Combined skier Billy Demong is married and has a 2-year-old.
“My wife is definitely a saint,” said the four-time Olympian, who lives and trains in Utah. “When you’re home, it’s like you’re a part-time athlete, full-time parent. It has been very focusing, and I think I’m in better shape this year. ... I have to be much more disciplined than I’ve ever been. And it ups the enjoyment level to have a child who can experience what you do.”
Logistics are sometimes challenging, Pikus-Pace said.
“We’re on airplanes and in airports for hours at a time,” she said. “The things parents dread, we do so much of. I have just learned to be patient. And we want to show that family is strong. Together we are better. I need my family by my side to achieve what I can.”
Traveling with her husband and children helps her remember her priorities, she said. And it turns something that’s extremely important to her — just as her kids and husband are — into a family affair.
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