Things my mother taught me: Well-known people share lessons learned from their moms
Courtesy of Lidia Soto Harmon
A mother can spot potential in her child like no else can, and find her own way of cultivating it. If you had a mother, or are one, you've learned that children need kisses and encouragement — and some correction and provocation — to become all they can be. Ask a successful person how they got where they are, and you can expect to hear about a lesson from Mom:
Lidia Soto-Harmon, Girl Scout leader
One of the greatest lessons Lidia Soto-Harmon learned from her mother is compassion for others. Soto-Harmon is CEO of the Girl Scout Council of the Nation's Capital, where she leads over 90,000 girls in the nation's second-largest Girl Scout council. This position, and her tenure on the U.S. State Department's Council of Women, make her a role model for the nation's Latina girls and for all women.
Soto-Harmon grew up in El Salvador, surrounded by poverty. At age 12, she went with her mother to a dilapidated neighborhood to conduct a Sunday school class.
"I was thrilled because I had come up with a great project for the kids," she said. "I had made homemade play dough for them to play with. So, I ceremoniously passed out my play dough to the kids — a mixture of flour, water and a little salt."
As she prepared to start her lesson, she noticed that all of the homemade modeling clay was gone — the children had eaten it. Her heart was filled with fury because her carefully planned lesson couldn't go forward.
Seeing her daughter's frustration, her mother Nina carefully explained that the children were hungry. Her kind, gentle words helped young Lidia comprehend the poverty of the ragged children who sat before her, and care more about their needs than her own pride.
"To this day, that lesson has stayed in my heart," Soto-Harmon said. "I think that is why I love working for the Girl Scouts, because we are trying to build girls of character, courage and confidence, but also girls who have compassion for others."
Leon Fleisher, world-famous pianist
When Leon Fleisher, 84, made his solo debut with the New York Philharmonic at age 16, his playing was so electrifying that he was hailed by the conductor as the talent find of the century. An illustrious international career followed. But during his 30s, when Fleisher was at the height of his fame, he lost the use of his right hand because of a rare medical condition called focal dystonia.
Fleisher didn't give up. Instead, he began performing piano music composed for the left hand only and took up conducting, developing a successful new career. He was able to return to performing with both hands in the early 21st century, thanks to new medical treatments, and resumed his performing and recording career as a two-handed pianist.
Fleisher said he learned persistence from his mother, Bertha Fleisher, an emigrant from Poland.
"She taught me the necessity for stick-to-it-iveness," Fleisher said. "That's the best way I could put it. Young people are not always possessed of that quality. They want to try this, try that, play and experiment. The quality of stick-to-it-iveness to accomplish something special is essential."
Bertha Fleisher was a tough taskmaster, and her son didn't always appreciate that when he was a child — though he does now.
"We called her 'Big Bertha,'" he laughed. "That was the largest cannon that the Germans had in World War I."
Gabrielle Blair, Design Mom blogger
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