In Our Lovely Deseret: The ideal is the greatest reality

Published: Monday, April 15 2013 5:00 a.m. MDT

Truth is the ideal, and at the center of truth is the Savior. To seek after him is to also find the Ideal in ourselves.

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What is the great ideal?

The celebration of Easter was quickly followed by the weekend of conference. There was much during this time to occupy our minds and our hands. We were reminded by Sunday School teachers and bishops to "prepare" for conference, that the counsel given, and the spirit of the counsel, was not be wasted.

I suggest: Lift our thoughts in simplicity and supplication toward the ideal. If we dwell on what is best — noblest and most desirable — we will draw the Savior into our hearts in a way that is quiet, open and natural. We will see things and feel things that have been buried beneath piles of useless, transient debris in the back of our thoughts, holding our spirits down. Looking for the ideal we will shed much that is useless, we will delight — we will marvel!

This society does not think much nor talk much any more about ideals. The ideal is looked upon as an "unrealistic expectation" that places meaningless, unnecessary pressure, especially upon our children and our young people, who already have enough with which to deal.

But, ah!

They deal with the stark, the impersonal, the ofttimes empty demands of the day. These are always shifting — they are ofttimes fleeting — they tend to be confusing, with no recognizable outcome or goal. Many times, our youths see in the world nothing better than themselves — nothing shining with beauty, glory and promise, for which they can strive and for which they can yearn.

We usually consider ourselves standing apart from all this. But the tentacles of the world reach out to us, and it is a difficult challenge to disentangle ourselves. Everything in the world teaches "Look out for number one. Be smart, see first what’s in it for me." Sometimes we feel the emptiness of it and cringe. We forget what Jose Rezal said: "It is a useless life that is not consecrated to a great ideal. It is like a stone wasted on the field without becoming a part of any edifice."

But we are not wasted. We believe in the gospel. We are involved in the plan of salvation. We are doing our part. But, who are we? What do we see as ourselves — on the outside and on the inside? We may believe that we are children of God, but do we act, dress and speak like one? Both Presidents Joseph F. Smith and David O. McKay, presidents of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, taught that every man should, above all else, be a gentleman. And does a woman in jeans, a sagging T-shirt with unkempt hair and a slouching posture represent the ideal?

The Prophet Joseph Smith said, "Let every word be seasoned with grace" (see "Teaching the Prophet Joseph Smith," p. 156).

He also entreated the brethren as quoted in "Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith," "How vain and trifling have been our spirits, our councils, our meetings, our private as well as public conversations — too low, too mean, too vulgar, too condescending for the dignified characters of the called and chosen of God."

So many niggling little fingers of the world twist, direct and deter us. In the Doctrine and Covenants, the Lord tells us gently, but many times, that all have gone astray. All have worldly idols to face and dislodge.

Do any of Madeline L’Engle’s words ring true? These are from "Walking On Water": "Because we cannot see a God we can touch, a God we can comprehend with our rational intellects, we invent new gods to take his place — all the little gods of technocracy, little gods who have eyes and see not, ears and hear not, hands and touch not, and who have nothing to say to us in our times of deepest need."

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