Balancing act: A discussion on being Darth Vader, other dream jobs while finding workplace flexibility
Henny Ray Abrams, AP
I have yet to hear of anyone else who had childhood dreams of growing up to be Darth Vader.
However, I have received other responses to recent columns about dream jobs and workplace flexibility, so I've decided to share some this week.
One interesting response to the column about a LinkedIn survey on dream jobs came from a reader named Andrew. He described himself in an email as "a 34-year-old married father of three who hasn't figured out what to be when he grows up."
"For a long time I was kind of depressed about all of the failures I've endured over the years, but as I thought about it, I realized that I have a lot of really funny stories to tell, so I've started writing about it," Andrew wrote.
He does have some humorous experiences to share, and I'm guessing you'll be able to relate to them. Check out his blog if you're interested in reading more.
Another reader posted a comment online congratulating me and my wife for raising daughters who can see themselves in careers outside of the home, "especially in fields such as medicine and engineering."
"Women can pursue careers and motherhood," this reader wrote. "Girls and young women should always be encouraged to aspire to more than 'just being a mom,' just as young boys are encouraged to aspire to more than 'just being a dad.'
"You never know, for sure, if marriage/parenthood is in your children's future (for any number of reasons), but you can be fairly certain they will need to be able to support themselves financially, so you should encourage them to find a career that they can enjoy for a few decades, as the retirement age is only going to increase."
While I believe that the roles of mother and father are the most important that any woman and man, respectively, can have, I do agree that it's important for all of our youth to prepare to support themselves. We've tried to teach our children that they can develop the knowledge and skills to tackle almost any occupation, if they put their minds to it. It's amazing watching them grow, and I can't wait to see how they do as they chase those ambitious dreams of theirs.
As for me, I'm still chasing the dream of building better work-life balance, and I've written quite a bit recently about those personal goals and the role of workplace flexibility in reaching them.
In response to a column a couple of weeks ago in which I shared my "A-to-Z" list of work-life balance successes, failures and advice, one reader posted a comment online saying it included several applicable points.
"My favorite was 'At home, I try to focus on family,’ ” she wrote. "I like to think of the workday as a 24-hour clock, taking an hour off here or there to be with my kids and then hopping back on the computer at night so I can do the work that I missed. Getting back to work after these short breaks with your spouse and kids won’t be as difficult now that you have spent a few extra minutes with them.
"Kei Nomaguchi, Ph.D., associate professor of sociology at Bowling Green State University, says even just 20 minutes of your attention makes a difference. Further, it's important to let your kids know how much you love your job. This helps them to respect you as a parent and as a businessperson they could look up to."
It is vital to give that attention to one's spouse and children, and I would say the more time they get, the better. That's why I'm so glad my job now does not require much work from home.
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