Kristin Murphy, Deseret News
SANDY — When Paul and Tina Fulgham pulled up to the Lone Peak Pavilion in Sandy Saturday, the place looked familiar.
It was a niece's wedding on Aug. 5, 2011. It was also the last time their whole family was together before their 19-year-old son, Logan, died in a car crash less than a month later.
"I danced with Logan on this very floor," Tina Fulgham said Saturday.
The Fulghams came from Tremonton. The families they were coming to meet came from all over the state, one from as far south as La Sal, to meet with each other and talk about their shared experiences.
United by their efforts with the Utah Department of Health's "Don't Drive Stupid" campaign, which is part of the larger Zero Fatalities initiative, all had lost children since the campaign started in 2007 and all had decided to help by sharing their children's stories to try and spare another child, another parent — another family — from their experience.
Though initially reluctant to take part in the program, Paul Fulgham said he and his wife left a meeting earlier this year with a good feeling. "Uplifted, after we shed some tears" and motivated to help.
"We left being willing to educate, to go to driver's education classes and work with our county and community," he said. "We want to educate the kids and keep his memory alive. ... We want to help parents to not have to go through these things."
Those involved with Zero Fatalities and the Department of Health attending the event all took their time to thank the families and emphasize that their willingness to help and to share is helping move them closer to their goal of zero fatalities on Utah roads. The numbers are going down, they said. Forty teenagers were killed in 2007. In 2011, it was 23.
"We go all over the state to share your stories and keep your children's memory alive," a tearful Stacy Johnson said. "Every year we bring these stories to the forefront so we can save lives. It is making a difference. Your stories are saving lives. Thank you so much for your courage, thank you for sharing your stories."
Logan Fulgham died Sept. 3, 2011 after his car crossed the center line on State Route 30 and collided head-on with an oncoming vehicle. He died instantly. A diabetic, his family thinks he may have gone into a diabetic coma.
"I know that (Logan) touched many lives while he was here and that he's touched many lives since," Tina Fulgham said. "We hope we can be part of Zero Fatalities, to help them and maybe those that are diabetic. ... We're thankful for this opportunity to be part of this."
The condition had kept Logan from serving an LDS mission, but Paul Fulgham said they were working on getting it under control so Logan could serve. He was a quiet kid, but he was a friend to all that he came in contact with and looked for the good in everyone, his parents said.
"We think maybe the Lord was preparing him," Paul Fulgham said. "He had another mission for him, different than the one we were working on."
He said he is not one who cries, but since his son has died he has "cried more than ever." It's not easy for him to be as emotional as he is now and he knows it will be difficult to speak often about his son, but he wants to do it anyway.
"(We can) make these stories come alive to the kids and it impresses them more," he said. "They might stop and think before (they get out on the road)."
Johnson said she and her team members ask students to pick a specific story to focus on that resonates with them. She read statements from students who said the experience has changed and impacted them.
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