Dave Ramsey says: Wise giving during the holidays

Published: Monday, Dec. 17 2012 12:00 a.m. MST

Dear Dave,

Were debt-free except for our house, and thats on a 15-year, fixed-rate mortgage. We also have an emergency fund in place. Wed like to give back this year, and do some Secret Santa things and a little extra giving. At what point should we start giving over and above what we tithe?


Dear Jeremy,

My advice would be to wait until you finish Baby Step 3, which it sounds like youve done. That way, youve paid off all of your debt, except the house, plus you have a fully-funded emergency fund of three to six months of expenses.

You mentioned tithing, so Ill cite the Scripture that says he who doesnt take care of his family is worse than an unbeliever. Im paraphrasing, of course, but in my mind, from a financial point of view, taking care of your family means having your emergency fund in place and being out of debt, except for your house. At that stage, youre beginning to build wealth and you can really help others while knowing those closest to you arent going without.

My wife and I made the decision a long time ago to live on a certain amount of money. We apply a formula to everything above that figure for tithing and taxes. The rest we allocate for giving, saving and spending. It works great for us, but be responsible and realistic with what you have. You dont want one of those areas to hinder the others.


Dear Dave,

Do you have any advice for deciding which charities to give money to during the holidays?


Dear Danny,

There are so many great organizations out there. Its virtually impossible to pick three or four and say with any certainty theyre the best.

When it comes to choosing, I think the amount of diligence you put into the decision-making process should correspond directly to the amount of money youre giving. Theres no reason to spend hours in exhaustive study over a $20 donation. However, youd want to put some time and thought into research if the amount is $2,000.

In situations like this, Id want to see full disclosure. Id like to know the expense ratios of the organization and how much money goes toward administrative costs. Every organization has bills to pay and salaries to consider, but you dont want overhead to eat up 90 percent of every dollar donated.

Helping a good cause is wonderful, but youve got to be reasonable and wise about these things. Dont feel bad about asking to visit a site and take a tour. Lots of times you can get a feel for whats going on by just walking around and gauging the people you encounter. Regardless, the bigger the gift, the more time you should spend investigating!


* Dave Ramsey is Americas trusted voice on money and business. Hes authored fourNew York Times best-selling books: Financial Peace, More Than Enough, The Total Money Makeover and EntreLeadership. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more than 5 million listeners each week on more than 500 radio stations. Follow Dave on Twitter at @DaveRamsey and on the web at daveramsey.com .

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