Readers' advice on change: stay humble, be yourself

For the last few weeks, I've been writing about my departure from the Deseret News and my experiences as I've started a new job.

I've asked for your advice during this time, and several of you have responded — some with much-appreciated words of encouragement, and others with suggestions to help me through the challenges I've faced during my transition.

This week, I'd like to share some of your thoughts, in the hopes that they will help others who are changing jobs as much as they have helped me.

One reader, Mark, sent me an email that included some excellent advice about change.

(By the way, he's a big fan of KSL radio morning show co-host Amanda Dickson's book, "Change It Up," and I am, too. If you are considering making a change in your life or are dealing with an unexpected change, I highly recommend it.)

"The key to change is perspective, looking at the whole picture and not getting caught up in the very short-term details of the change. Especially in a career change," Mark wrote.

"I was with my previous employer for 19 years, and then one day change was forced upon me, and I had to look for new work. At first I was distraught, but after some job searching found employment that’s been wonderful. I know that I wouldn’t have done this on my own, and learned a great lesson, that there is life after change."

That's certainly true, Mark — and sometimes, your life after change is better than the life you had before!

Mark went on to say that, when he started his new job, he found his employer appreciated his humility and genuine concern, shown by his openness and a willingness to ask questions.

"Focus on the big picture, and always remember to be appreciative, that you can be replaced," Mark wrote. "Pride and ego has destroyed many talented individual careers."

If we haven't all learned that we're replaceable after living through the last few years of economic turmoil, I'd argue that we haven't been paying attention. Thanks for the words of advice, Mark.

Another reader, Dave, had this to say: "Best of the best to you as (you) move forward to the next stage of your career. I don't have any good advice to give you (sorry) other than be what you are. As crazy as this sounds, think about it: 'You are what you are ... BECAUSE ... you are what you are.' "