The couple knew it wouldn’t be easy but decided to give it a shot. Their plan called for Barbara to become the breadwinner, and Ken had two years to get a full-time coaching job or it was back to the real world.
“His dream was to get me home so I could raise our children,” Barbara said.
For two years, the Niumatalolos struggled to get by while other grad assistants slept and showered in the team facilities. In addition to coaching, Niumatalolo carted around the head coach’s exercise bike, brought lunch boxes to the video crew and dropped off the coaches’ kids at school. Friends questioned if his labors were worth it, but his hard work eventually paid off. After the 1991 season, he earned an assistant position at the University of Hawaii. In the years that followed, he also found employment at Navy and UNLV. When Johnson left to coach at Georgia Tech at the end of 2007, Niumatalolo was hired as the head coach at the U.S. Naval Academy.
“(Each time) we tried to listen to the promptings of the Holy Ghost, and the Lord has blessed our family,” Niumatalolo said. “I’m glad we listened."
Coaching and callings
Since taking over the Navy football program, Niumatalolo — the second Polynesian and first Samoan head coach in college football — has led the Midshipmen to 27 wins, 14 losses, including two straight wins over Notre Dame, three bowl appearances and two Commander-in-Chief’s Trophies, an honor that includes a trip to the White House to meet the president.
It’s an impressive rÉsumÉ, considering Navy is a military school with a unique mission and atmosphere. And Niumatalolo has done it while carving out time to serve in church leadership positions and not working on Sundays.
Niumatalolo served as first counselor in the bishopric for about seven years before working in the Primary and being assigned to his current calling as Young Men president.
“It’s tough, (but) I’ve always tried to do the best I can. I am not the only person like this,” the coach said.
For a college football coach, Sundays are “critical the biggest preparation day of the week,” Niumatalolo said. “I don’t force my beliefs on my staff, but I am who I am, and (keeping the Sabbath day holy) is the best way I know how to get prepared and ready for the game. It helps me be a better coach. It helps me stresswise. I feel better.”
The coach also believes it’s a benefit for players to have a day off to balance out their busy lives.
It’s fitting, considering that Matthew 6:33 is one of his favorite scriptures: “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”
One of Niumatalolo’s favorite sections of the Doctrine and Covenants is 121, which shares insight on how to be an effective priesthood leader.
“The power of the priesthood translates into everything. It’s how the Lord operates, through persuasion, long-suffering and meekness,” he said. “If you exercise unrighteous dominion, even from a worldly standpoint, things don’t work out. I’ve tried to apply those governing principles as a priesthood leader and in my job.”
During the week, he and his staff focus on teaching the Midshipmen to develop qualities such as integrity, character and work ethic, “all those intangibles we build on to hopefully build a team that maybe will overcome some deficiencies in talent,” Niumatalolo said.
Niumatalolo’s office is filled with family photos.
“The most important role is being a husband and a father,” he said. “That’s way more important than being a coach."
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