KANSAS CITY, Mo. — Collections are a blessing.

Photographs, books, hula girl figurines: They speak to our memories and passions like nothing else in the home. They make us different and special.

But collections also can be a curse. Once friends and family figure out what you like, watch out. You could have a menagerie of monkey statues to wrangle.

"People accumulate without really knowing what they're going to do with it or where to put it," says Kevin Sharkey, executive editorial director of decorating for Martha Stewart Living.

So, unfortunately, because we don't know what to do with our collections, they end up packed away in cardboard boxes. Sure, the clutter of a haphazardly displayed collection is gone. But then the personalities in our homes vanish.

This year, I'm corralling my collections. Displaying collections might seem like an easy DIY project, but it's hard because it involves lots of self-editing and discipline. The result is a meaningful display that expresses who you are. And that's infinitely satisfying.

GROUP LIKE THINGS

Books look good with other books. Photographs go best with other photographs. That sounds easy, but we tend to scatter things willy-nilly throughout the home.

PURGE

Sell or donate collections and pieces of a collection you don't like. Hallmark photostylist Andy Newcom, who has collected portraits of businessmen, blue milk glass and beyond (and we're just on the B's), sold his collections before moving into a smaller home in Fairway, Kan. Those that remain have taken on a starring role in his home.

"I have a passion for both new and old things," Newcom says. "Mixing them creates an interesting look."

English ironstone pitchers and serving pieces are the focal point in the kitchen. His collection of clear glass bottles and containers decorates the mantel in the living room.

COLOR CAN BE KEY

The two most popular collections are personal photographs and books. For black-and-white pictures, Sharkey suggests creating a gallery wall, painting it a vivid color so the photos really pop.

Sharkey also groups his books by color. Many designers adopt the Roy G. Biv method of displaying books by the colors in the rainbow.

I collect books, but I categorize them by subject matter in alphabetical order. With my brother's help, I'm corralling that collection into a more stylish and functional display. He has cut down existing bookshelves to desk height, and we're rebuilding them to fit every angle in the library/home office. The result will be less wall clutter and the illusion of more space.

CONSIDER OPEN SHELVING