McLEAN, Va. — Lauren Kirk had a hamburger in hand, a new friend by her side. On Monday afternoon, she was one of the cool kids.

The 14-year-old from Bloomington, Ind., with the lime-green headband and wild shoelaces wasn't about to skip the annual Scripps National Spelling Bee barbecue to pore over lists of obscure words for the weeklong spell-off.

While a few did choose to hang out at the hotel to study, the rest — including 12-year-old Kira Simpson from Bluff, Utah — were in their element at a park in the Virginia suburbs, romping around, playing volleyball, trading autographs and singing karaoke. (ABBA seemed to be a favorite this year.)

Only at a spelling-bee picnic could Simpson wear a blue T-shirt that reads "I love nerds" and fit right in.

"It's really nice to be among people who actually get your jokes," said Kirk, who had a peace sign painted on her temple and yellow-and-black bee on her leg.

In addition to Simpson, three other Utahns are among this year's 293 contestants: Mark Brand, 14, of Bountiful; Jacob Lobrot, 10, of Heber City; and Henry B. Korous, 13, of Salt Lake City.

Only a dozen or so of the spellers who descended on the nation's capital this week will make it to finals on ABC, and a handful more will get past the written test and appear on the ESPN-televised semifinals earlier Thursday. For most of the rest — who might stand out as a bit dorky back home — socialization trumps competition for the more than $40,000 in cash and prizes.

"The competition is very important," said 13-year-old Kavya Shivashankar, a three-time finalist from Olathe, Kan., and one of the favorites to win this year. "But this is the time that I get to meet all my friends that I've met in the past years. We keep in touch over the year. It's so easy to make friends. Everyone shares the same interest."

But nerds also love to have fun. Those who stayed at the hotel to study might wish to note that last year's winner, Sameer Mishra, never missed the barbecue.

"Even though I was a bit too big, there was those jumpy inflatable things — I always had to go to that every single year," Mishra said in a telephone interview from his home in West Lafayette, Ind. "It was like the first thing I always did before I ate."

The serious spellers have memorized homemade lists of tens of thousands of words. Others were simply good enough to win their local bee, and just being here is enough.