"Just as harmony comes from an orchestra only when its members make a concerted effort, so harmony in marriage requires a concerted effort," Elder Nelson said.

Focus on gospel principles that will strengthen marriage and faith often comes from teachers in the church.

William D. Oswald of the Sunday School general presidency reminded those who teach, which is a requirement in nearly every calling in the church, to know their students by name, teach from the scriptures and encourage students to ponder gospel truths.

Elder Eduardo Gavarret, of the Quorums of the Seventy, said the home should be a refuge from the world, but that church attendance can offer love and support to families who have stopped attending.

"Oh that each one of us would accept, as a beautiful demonstration of our love for our Heavenly Father, the responsibility we bear as members of this church to seek after those who are not here with us," he said.

Hard times have happened and are likely to continue, said Elder Quentin L. Cook, of the Quorum of the Twelve, and difficulties come in various forms.

Some deal with economic problems. Others suffer through physical or mental health challenges. Others might deal with marital problems or wayward children. Death, addictions and harmful activities can cause heartache, he said.

"We know from the scriptures, that some trials are for our good and are suited for our own personal development. We also know that the rain falls on the just and the unjust," Elder Cook said.

It's important to be prepared for challenges, he said, by keeping the commandments.

But, "regardless of our trials, with the abundance we have today, we would be ungrateful if we did not appreciate our blessings."

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