Though contentions against and criticisms of the LDS Church may arise, its members should avoid pride, seek unity, defend their faith with love, serve others, be virtuous and, though life changes should be expected, they shouldn't lose sight of what's important.

That's what Jesus would do.

Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints were told to develop those, among other Christ-like attributes, during the church's 178th Semiannual General Conference on Sunday morning.

Church President Thomas S. Monson reminded members that stresses will come no matter what.

"We must deal with them the best we can," he said. "But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important — and what is always most important almost always involves the people around us. Often, we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know."

"Despite the changes which come into our lives, and with gratitude in our hearts, may we fill our days — as much as we can — with those things which matter most," President Monson said.

During the past two decades, the church has experienced an unprecedented prominence in the worldwide community of faith, said Elder M. Russell Ballard, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

"Probably not coincidentally, we have also experienced unprecedented ideological attacks on our people, our history and our doctrine through the media," he said.

Some wonder why the church does not more vigorously defend itself, said fellow apostle Elder Robert D. Hales.

But the members of the church have the ability to respond to criticisms and accusations and should do so through prayer and following the example of Jesus Christ.

"When we respond to our accusers as the Savior did, we not only become more Christ-like, we invite others to feel his love and follow him as well," Elder Hales said.

Each circumstance will be different. True disciples of Jesus Christ seek guidance from the Spirit, respond in ways that invite the Spirit of the Lord, are concerned with others' welfare, avoid being unduly judgmental of others' views, speak with quiet confidence and sometimes show courage by saying nothing at all, he said.

Even negative publicity about the church can present opportunities to present the truth, Elder Hales said.

"We can take advantage of such opportunities in many ways: a kind letter to the editor, a conversation with a friend, a comment on a blog, or a reassuring word to one who has made a disparaging comment."