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Same-sex couple from Salt Lake plan to marry in California

Published: Saturday, June 28, 2008 12:03 a.m. MDT
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It may be a narrow window. But that's all one Salt Lake City couple needs.

Todd Bennett, 48, and Ron Hunt, 55, are among couples lining up to tie the knot in California as the political battle brews there over same-sex marriage.

A recent California Supreme Court ruling allowing gay couples to wed could be overruled in November, when voters decide whether to constitutionally bar same-sex marriage. And leaders in the LDS Church recently issued a statement encouraging its members to support the California marriage amendment.

But, Bennett and Hunt say politics and lawsuits were the last thing on their minds when they made plans for a small civil ceremony in September. For them, marriage is simply about love and commitment.

And, even if it's temporary, the California ruling has created an opportunity for which they've waited years.

"We're not trying to thumb our nose," Bennett said. "This is about us wanting to get married."

The couple has been together for just over 13 years. During that time they have comforted each other through surgeries, job changes and unemployment. It was Bennett who was by Hunt's side during three neck operations.

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"We've been supportive of each other, basically, through feast and famine, through good and bad," Hunt says. "He's the one for me, and I'm glad he still chooses me."

Still, their marriage license will be largely symbolic when they return home to Utah, where voters have constitutionally barred same-sex marriage and domestic unions.

"The state of Utah has been very clear on whether or not to recognize same-sex marriage. The answer is no," said Bill Duncan, director of the Marriage Law Foundation, which supports traditional marriage.

While a federal court challenge is possible, Duncan said, it would likely take "changes to the U.S. Supreme Court" for a successful resolution there.

Duncan said California marriages may be more significant for couples from other states, such as New York, where there's no constitutional bar on same-sex marriages and it has yet to be seen exactly how they'll be treated.

For Bennett and Hunt, the idea of having a marriage license is enough for now. They agree with Sen. Scott McCoy, D-Salt Lake, who has also said he is considering a trip to California to marry his partner. Still, McCoy has encouraged gay spouses not to sue Utah, saying on the Senate Democrat blog that "Utah courts are not likely to lead out on marriage equality for Utah."

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Ron Hunt, left, and Todd Bennett, pose for wedding announcement photographs at Exchange Place in Salt Lake City on Thursday.

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