Doug Robinson: P. Diddy not a good example of Daddy

Published: Monday, June 14 2010 10:41 p.m. MDT

A father can tell a kid all he wants about how to be an adult and how to make his way in the world and be a good person, but the lesson is more effective if he shows how this is done — if he lives it.

What Combs has shown his kids is that you can break the law — he has faced several legal charges — and all you have to do is hire lawyers and/or change your name, again and again, and the problem is solved.

He has taught his children nothing about delayed gratification, that if he wants something, such as a luxury car, they can just buy one or someone will do it for you. No work ethic or earning is required.

He has taught his son that he has no responsibility for his children beyond, perhaps, being a provider, and heaven help him if he's not filthy rich.

Combs has almost assuredly perpetuated the epidemic of fatherless homes that plagues American families.

Because he has not taught him how to be a father.

Doug Robinson's column runs on Tuesdays. Please send e-mail to drob@desnews.com.

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