From Deseret News archives:
Many inexpensive ways to renew marital vows
My husband and I are retired and recently celebrated our 30th with a "renewal of vows" ceremony. It doesn't have to break the bank.
We planned a year in advance and saved money just for that occasion. I wore a secondhand wedding gown. My daughter and I shopped for decorations (instead of flowers) at the dollar store. It was beautiful.
Since I am retired military, I was able to use the chapel and the club on base, which was quite reasonable. But there are all kinds of other relatively inexpensive options for a reception local fire hall, church basement or, in the summer, a public park.
My grown children are musicians, and they "gifted" us with their music at the chapel. We hired a DJ which didn't cost much and friends took photos and videos for us.
Abby, our first wedding was nice, but it was mostly for others. Our second wedding was for me and my husband and it was everything we hoped it would be.
Bobbie in Norristown, Pa.
Dear Abby: You don't have to spend a lot of money for a renewal of vows. If you belong to a church, it will usually donate use of its social hall or sanctuary. The church surely will have some talented members who can help with decorations. Food shouldn't be a problem you can do punch/coffee/cake for less than $50. The entire event could be handled for under $300.
To Steve W.'s "children": Think of your parents. You don't know how long you'll have them. Chip in (yes, use some of YOUR money) and make this a memorable occasion for them. Becki in Garden Grove, Calif.
Dear Abby: We asked our new priest if he would give us a special blessing on our 45th. To our surprise, we were called up to the altar after Mass, and he renewed our vows in front of the entire congregation.
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