From Deseret News archives:
Focus effort on the experience, not the look
The requirements were very simple and did not mandate poster and treat being color-coordinated. I was elated. My daughter and I made plans to create this fabulous poster on a quiet Sunday afternoon.
On Sunday afternoon, I promptly felt ill immediately after church and slept for the entire afternoon. Monday was a blur and, lo and behold, it was Tuesday morning. The best part was that 15 minutes before the carpool arrived, my daughter asked sweetly, "Where's the blossom poster, Mommy?"
If you have a sweet preschool daughter, with eyelashes like a Cindy-Lou-Who, you will know exactly how I felt at that moment World's Largest Heel of a Mother. I had completely forgotten the entire assignment. (Should someone ground me?) Flying into action I grabbed the last bit of poster board in the house (black), foraged for scrapbooking stickers (thank goodness I had procrastinated making my new goal board), and directed my other daughter like a traffic cop, "scissors, 4 o'clock; gluestick, Mom's office."
I'm not kiddingfor the next 15 minutes I obsessed about that blossom poster. Did I do it wrong? Was there an instruction that I didn't read (again)? Was it supposed to be fancier, better, more pink? Why didn't my friend say anything? I felt a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, wondering if I had ultimately embarrassed my daughter in front of all her 4-year-old friends.
The phone rang and it was my daughter's preschool teacher. The pit feeling sank lower. She said, "I just have to tell you, that has to be the cutest poster ever!" A new day had dawned. I hung up the phone feeling the zenith of joy she liked our poster, she really liked it! What rapture, I was a successful mother. She had even called me "artsy" this was a day to record.
Comments
- 2 stranded hikers rescued 1:40 p.m.
- Belichick stands by decision 1:38 p.m.
- Adding truth serum to her cereal 1:37 p.m.
- Ex-Marine recruiter pleads guilty 1:37 p.m.
- Of naps, babies, and winter holidays 1:36 p.m.
- Mom seeks to remodel motherhood 1:33 p.m.
- Breastfeeding as weight loss plan 1:32 p.m.
- Food fight? Nah, I'll just wait 1:31 p.m.
- Groups to tackle invasive plants 1:30 p.m.
- Commo cold foiled vaccine test? 1:30 p.m.
- MWC expand? Get rid of deadweight
- Relieved Cougs prep for Falcons
- Wounded Utes limp home
- Apostle's wife felt comfort in attack
- Jazz rookies had to grow up quickly
- TCU stays 4th in AP; Y. 19th, U. 23rd
- Win in New Mexico good for Y?
- Big games keep UHSAA coffers full
- Bennett at center of GOP storm
- RSL surprised by Chicago's Fire
- TCU creams U.
233 - BYU happy to escape with victory
232 - Editorial: Mormons and gay rights
213 - Will state consider gay rights law?
156 - Can BYU root for (ick) Utah Utes?
131 - RSL heads to MLS title game
130 - Utes remain silent about BCS
120 - TCU stays 4th in AP; Y. 19th, U. 23rd
109 - Celtics crush Jazz
104 - 5A: Bingham rolls to title game
93
How do you handle kids and contests? Our oldest daughter, 7, is of the...
Earlier this year, my family and I went to San Diego, for an early,...
He was such a good missionary. I don't know what happened.
The best part of TCU winning is Byu won't be MWC champ and BYU won't be the...
This is unreal! He gives the baby a concussion and gets 6 months in jail!...
Bernanke is unquestionably a brilliant man. But he is also clueless about...
I think that this is an idea that should have been there all along!!! I...
say hello to the bench again. I think the only guard you'll be playing is...
You did not respond to my request your last post couple weeks ago, many of...
The LDS Church could not have done anything to stop the ugly bigoted reaction...
Regarding the comment that only society has the power to change the...
There's a big difference between sitting on one rear end getting fat as...


You can be the first to comment on this story.