From Deseret News archives:
President Hinckley taught positive change
Regardless of a person's religion or no religion at all he encouraged people of all ages and countries to "stand a little taller."
What I learned from him about creating positive change has been beyond calculation. Of all his wonderful qualities, I so appreciated his ability to be genuine, no matter the circumstance.
This has given me the courage to be "real," too. This includes when I unintentionally wore two different shoes to KSL Radio's downtown studio. Instead of spending the day mortified and barefoot, I shared my faux pas with listeners and had a fantastically connecting day.
Women all over seemed to have done the same thing. While on the elevator (while wearing said shoes), I laughed with another woman over it, and she shared how she wore two different shoes on the day she closed her best sales deal.
A small, insignificant experience, but one of hundreds that add up to a daily change in perspective and behavior.
After she and President Hinckley returned home from helping one of their children fix a shower, they found she had left a pot of spaghetti boiling on the stove. With the smoke and smell, President Hinckley pulled the hose from the garage and absent-mindedly turned on the tap, forgetting the spray sprinkler was still on.
"We looked at each other in total disbelief and wondered whatever was going to become of us. Like President Clark used to say, 'Old age is a blankety blank-blank."'
How many of us have had the same kind of day? And how comforting it is to know that someone rightly held in such high esteem by all had those days, too.
I remember listening to a talk by Sheri Dew, a former counselor in the General Relief Society presidency and President Hinckley's biographer, in which she shared an experience with President Hinckley. I'm drawing this from memory, but she apparently spoke with him about a decision she needed to make and felt she had waited too long to make it. Ultimately, she said, "President Hinckley, I just wish I was smarter," to which he replied, "I wish you were smarter, too."
His humor and ability to not allow the stresses of life to overtake his joy and optimism at the outcome has helped me to improve the ability to do the same.
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