Bardsleys shifting focus

They'll search on, but they aim to help others who have missing child

Published: Thursday, Sept. 2 2004 12:00 a.m. MDT

On their front porch, Kevin and Heidi Bardsley discuss the next step in the process of finding their son. They plan to continue the search.

Dan Lund, for the Deseret Morning News

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ELK RIDGE — It's too late for Kevin and Heidi Bardsley to save their youngest son.

Twelve-year-old Garrett Bardsley became lost during a campout with his father and other Boy Scouts in the rugged High Uintas.

Garrett, who has been missing about two weeks, is presumed dead. His body has not been found.

Now, the Elk Ridge couple is slowly coming to terms with the loss of their child. By no means is the process easy, especially because they have not yet been able to recover his body and say goodbye at a funeral.

But they want to help the next family with a missing child — and the family after that — to have better odds at having a successful search.

For now, they are going to put up markers in the densely wooded area.

In time, they plan to create a family search foundation in Garrett's name.

"We've learned so much," Kevin Bardsley told the Deseret Morning News during an interview at the family's Elk Ridge home. "We've got to get through this first. Then, we'll take this experience and turn this into a positive."

The Bardsleys plan to keep searching until snow stops them from going back to the area where Garrett disappeared.

"We're organizing as volunteers, family and friends to keep going and do a real fine search now — turn over every rock, look under every tree," Kevin Bardsley said. "We'll go week by week."

Those who want to help can get updates, maps and detailed information on what to do at www.findgarrett.org.

The Web site will also direct those interested in donating to the Garrett Bardsley Foundation at the Spanish Fork branch of Zions Bank.

Eventually, the Bardsleys said, any money given to the fund will help create an organization geared toward helping parents launch effective searches.

The Bardsleys appreciate the efforts of the Summit County Sheriff's Department and say deputies and other trained searchers did all they could to recover their son. But they feel valuable time was lost during the first few days after Garrett was reported missing.

"The coordination is so important. You have to work it together," Kevin Bardsley said. "especially with a lost child. When it all comes down to it, the search was my search and my wife's search."

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