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Burn victim beams with hope

2 BYU students bring Romanian orphan to U.S. for surgical help

Published: Monday, Sept. 8, 2008 1:08 a.m. MDT
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PROVO — Late on a hot afternoon, Brigham Young University students Jessica Free and Ashley Ludlow take turns feeding 9-year-old Marius Vasile Dasianu in a corner booth at the BYU Creamery on Ninth East.

In more ways than one, the trio have come a long way since they first met last January at St. Maria's Children's Hospital in Iasi, Romania. And, in more than one way, they still have a long way to go — especially Marius.

"I'm just a little bit nervous," he says through a translator about an upcoming reconstructive surgery "to get fingers and eyes and nose and face."

Marius has been in the United States with Ludlow and Free, both 20, and their families since last month, but at times they wonder if the day they've planned and talked about for months is actually near.

"I'm still dreaming," Marius says.

Nothing in Marius' demeanor gives any indication he's the survivor of a terrible house fire that killed his parents and left him badly disfigured. The only reminders of that night are burn scars that cover his face and 75 percent of his body. He lost all his fingers and thumbs as a result of the blaze, but he still offers what's left of his hand for a friendly shake.

"Marius," he says, introducing himself.

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To describe him is to describe any number of boys his age. He loves hamburgers and fries. He can be affectionate, yet playful, in the same breath, often telling Free and Ludlow, "I love you, stinker."

In November 2007, Marius woke in the middle of the night to find himself and his home engulfed in flames. He managed to escape through a bedroom window, but the blaze left him scarred with burns over most of his face and body. The fire also left him an orphan.

Doctors had to amputate Marius' fingers because of the severity of the burns, and they performed skin grafts. But the boy who once resembled Dennis the Menace — minus the back-pocket slingshot — remained severely disfigured. For months, he lay in St. Maria's Children's Hospital in Iasi, Romania, neglected except for his older brother Ionut Dasianu, who made the four-hour trip to visit when he could find time between burying their parents, rebuilding their home and earning a living.

Then enter Free, of Mesa, Ariz., and Ludlow, of San Diego, who came to Romania to complete internships for Brigham Young University's School of Family Life. The two students joined a group who threw a surprise birthday party for Marius Jan. 28. Both students said they were initially timid because of Marius' mangled outward features, but they soon saw past the scars.

Recent comments

this kid pwns i think he is doing awesome i get to visit him tomorrow

woot | Dec. 21, 2008 at 7:09 p.m.

I was sincerely blessed as another BYU intern to get to visit with...

Another witness | Sept. 10, 2008 at 10:54 a.m.

hey your so great keep up your strong ness your doing great!

bre | Sept. 9, 2008 at 9:52 p.m.

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Provided By Team Marius

In this family photo, Marius Dasianu is pictured before the fire that severely burned his face and hands and claimed his parents in Romania.

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