From Deseret News archives:
'Leap!' a delightful look at aging baby boomers
Sara Davidson is a baby boomer journalist who authored "Loose Change," an international bestseller about three women in the '60s. In this book she looks to the future for her generation as they age.
She selected a number of celebrated baby boomers, such as Carly Simon, Tom Hayden, Gloria Steinhem and others, to glean their combined wisdom. Carly Simon told the author of her difficulties with aging, how she "supposedly retired" and how tired she is of rejection. "I was not allowed on the David Letterman show. I've always been on Letterman. When they turned me down, I thought, 'That's it.'"
Simon said she hates it when people tell her "how young" she looks. She would rather they said, "You're beautiful at your age," which the author writes is true.
Simon said she was always "racing the clock" because the music business continually looks for the next young thing. After turning 40, Simon said she just "fought to keep my head above water."
"Feeling discarded like a dog," she said, was worse than undergoing chemo. Then quite suddenly things changed. She kept composing, her CD was revived, and she made it back to the top 10 with "Moonlight Serenade."
The book's next well-known person was Tom Hayden who became infamous as a young man for his strong political opposition to the Vietnam War, and he married Jane Fonda. Once the protest era passed, Hayden had a successful political career in California. Davidson met him after term limits forced him out after 18 years in the California Assembly.
At 62, he ran for a seat on the Los Angeles City Council, but he lost to a hotshot attorney in his 30s whose campaign theme was "A New Generation of Leadership." After his loss, he suffered heart failure and underwent a quintuple bypass operation. When he had physically recovered he started seeing a therapist for depression. He now feels his life is "accelerating to its end."
Gloria Steinem, the most famous and most beautiful of the modern feminists, was 65 when Davidson met her. While a young woman, she went to work as a Playboy bunny so she could write about the objectification of women. She edited Ms. Magazine, gave lectures and helped open hundreds of doors to women. She never felt the same interest that most women feel for marriage and having a man in her life.
At 66, Steinhem surprised everyone by getting married for the first time to David Bale, an environmental activist. But three years later, he died of brain cancer. Afterward, she said she had waited so long because she was looking for someone she could have "interdependence'" with without giving up herself.
She also said "he had the greatest heart of anyone I've known."
These are just a few of the many great stories Davidson has accumulated in this fascinating little volume.
E-mail: dennis@desnews.com
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