As the world offers conflicting messages about what is most important, young women can know for themselves what God has in store for them by preparing to receive a patriarchal blessing, according to Sister Julie B. Beck, first counselor in the Young Women presidency.

Recalling her own experience, "I came away with a comforting assurance that the Lord loved me and knew me, and from that day onward, I began to think more often in terms of eternity rather than popularity."

Such a blessing can provide direction for life, particularly when some would try to discourage young women from reaching their goals. When a high school counselor told Sister Beck she wouldn't do well in college, her blessing provided the inspiration she needed to move ahead and earn a university diploma.

"When we know who we are and what we are supposed to do, it is easier to make important decisions about education, careers and marriage," as well as to dress modestly, avoid foul language, refrain from drugs and alcohol and to remain chaste.

Sister Elaine S. Dalton, second counselor, said those who "live close to God and his infinite grace (don't) have to tell, it will show in your face. . . . The light in your countenance comes because you have made and kept covenants with our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ."

Young women whose light becomes a "standard for the nations" are called to leadership, she said, "to lead out in decency, purity, modesty and holiness. . . . Can one righteous young woman change the world? The answer is a resounding 'Yes!'"

Led by inspiration, some are the only church members in their families or schools. "You are making a difference. You are leading in righteous ways. . . . The fact that you were born a girl is not by chance. Your divine characteristics will be magnified as you lead others and arise to your divine potential."

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