From Deseret News archives:
All-American tips fill book from Durrants
The book, published by Spring Creek Book Co. in Provo, hit local bookstores this past week, just in time, appropriately enough, for Father's Day.
Devin gives full credit to his father for the book's material, writing in the preface, "He has been the perfect father for me. He, in his own magical way, helped me find and place every piece in my All-American Puzzle."
The rest of the book identifies the pieces of that puzzle. The Durrant theory of child-rearing is that if you help a child put all the pieces together, he or she will become an All-American athlete, symbolically if not officially.
The nine puzzle pieces are: 1. The Dream, 2. Be Your Own Coach, 3. Be Coachable, 4. Work, Work, Work; 5. Rodeo Tough, 6. Dare Mighty Things, 7. Love The Game, 8. Make Your Own Luck and 9. Gifts from God.
You'll have to buy the book ($16.95 in paperback) to get all the details.
Devin says that the puzzle piece that glues it all together that straw that stirs the drink (as long as we're quoting baseball philosophers) is No. 2: Be Your Own Coach.
Another key to churning out All-Americans, Devin notes, is parents knowing when to back off.
"One big problem is fanatical parenting parents driven to see their child succeed and interfering too much," he says. "My dad took a backseat. He was smart enough to let the coaches be the coaches."
While Durrant's book focuses on producing outstanding athletes, he stresses that the formula works for non-athletic pursuits as well. "One strong reason I wrote the book is to show how to use sports as a model for success in all areas of life," he says. "Sports participation is a part-time thing, but life is permanent."
Again, Durrant's own life is the prototype, proof positive that there is life, and plenty of it, after competitive athletics.
In 1984, his senior season at BYU, he was named All-American alongside the likes of Michael Jordan, Charles Barkley and Patrick Ewing. Each of those players went on to become part of the legendary Dream Team that played in the 1992 Olympics. By that time, Durrant was out of basketball. He played one full season in the NBA with the Indiana Pacers and briefly with the Phoenix Suns before going to Europe to play for three seasons, first in Spain and then France.
"My professional career wasn't much," he says, but based on the discipline he'd learned as an amateur athlete, he saved enough from his pro salaries that he had close to $300,000 when he "retired." He invested the money in apartment buildings in Provo and now runs his own company, First Serve Property Management, out of the house that he shares with his wife, Julie, and their six children.
At 44, he's now focusing on raising All-Americans, not being one. His fondest dream is to become his father.
Lee Benson's column runs Sunday, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. Please send e-mail to benson@desnews.com and faxes to 801-237-2527.
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