FLDS 'Lost Boys' must leave St. George shelter
"I've been doing this for more than five years. I know what they'll go back to," she said.
A St. George shelter for teens who have either run away or been kicked out of the Fundamentalist LDS Church is undergoing a rocky transition, leaving some of the so-called "Lost Boys" in danger of being homeless again. Benward, who ran the House Just Off Bluff, has been fired. She spoke to the Deseret News the day after being let go from her job.
The home is transitioning from a shelter to a youth drop-in center after it lost its state contract for not being properly zoned and licensed. Since it was created more than a year ago, the home has sheltered teenagers from the FLDS communities of Hildale, Utah, and Colorado City, Ariz.
"We have to leave the house but nobody knows where they're going to go," said Simon Barlow, 21, who has been staying at the House Just Off Bluff while he goes to college.
St. George city leaders were not willing to change the zoning to allow for overnight stays. That and licensing problems led to the current situation, said Tracy Johnson, the executive director of New Frontiers for Families, which manages the home. Now she's trying to find host families for the boys still living at the House Just Off Bluff while keeping them in school.
"It's scary for people who have had such unstable living arrangements for them to have to think about moving again and making decisions," Johnson said. "We're trying to meet with them as a team every other day to make sure that they're continuing to go to school and reassuring them we're trying as best we can."
The home was created to stop the problem of teenagers from the FLDS communities left to fend for themselves. After the Deseret News first reported on the home, generous readers flooded New Frontiers for Families with donations to furnish it.
Some of the Lost Boys said they were kicked out of their homes for not complying with their community's strict standards. Others said they ran away. Advocates have estimated as many as 1,000 exiled teens.
"They're going through that teenage angst and that rebellious nature," Benward said. "It's not as much the parents booting them out anymore as the teenagers taking off. Their parents are contacting me and saying, 'What are their options?' and I say, 'We've got options."'
Benward wanted a shelter to stop the kids from crashing in "butt huts," apartments packed with teens and no adult supervision. They don't go to school, wind up on drugs and get in trouble with the law. The House Just Off Bluff was created to give them some stability.
Since the home came into being, Benward estimates they helped at least 130 teens. She's had direct contact with at least 300.
Recent comments
It's very sad that this happens to these boys. The teaching of...
jcsslc2008 | June 24, 2009 at 2:42 p.m.
Incredibly bad form, st. george, especially in light of the recent...
upset in iowa | Nov. 22, 2008 at 8:11 p.m.
For those that are truely boys....where are the foster homes.
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zxcvbnm | Oct. 28, 2008 at 5:59 p.m.
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